SIX DIFFERENT CATEGORIES OF PEOPLE WHO CANNOT BE HELPED.

in hive-175254 •  4 years ago 

Highly successful people understand the great need to help others as they climb up the ladder of success, success is a major life drive and it is very important that we bring up/help other people as we move through the direction of life success but we must also note that not everyone can be helped or assisted because most of us are trying to follow these successful role models, we also try to help everyone and lift them up, we must however learn that not everyone can be helped. As you continue to read, I will be sharing some categories of humans who cannot just be helped.

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Those who live in self-denial.

If you have been with someone who believes that he or she is always right and lives in denial of the reality then just bear it in mind that such person is far from being helped and staying with a person like that might even affect your own personal growth.

Those who are victimized.

These set of people lack virtual emotional maturity and irrespective of how hard you try to convince them, they will never get to change. People who always think they are up to no good and someone else is doing better than them just because the person is more pretty will find it difficult to be helped.

Self-righteous people.

These set of people always feel like they know everything and they have absolutely nothing to change for or learn from others, these people believe that if you want to get into their league or class then you will be the one to step up your game instead. Trying to help these set of people will most likely yield a frustrating result.

Highly deceptive people.

These set of people are mainly concerned about what their benefit will be during their course of having a relationship with you, they are mostly liars and cheats who simply love to take advantage of others and they usually feel they are super smart also.

People who are desperate.

These set of people do not care about relationships, when they want something they can go to any length to get it even if it means hurting those call friends, for your own safety it is necessary to run away from these set of people and stay as far away as you can from them.

People who always have a reason to doubt.

These category of people usually have a reason to think everyone that gets close to them just wants to hurt them and trying to help someone like this might make you start feeling the same way also at the long run.

CONCLUSION.

It does not mean that those who fall within the category listed above do not have any remedy to make them change their attitude, but the first thing they have to do will be to admit their flaws then get a change of heart but if they remain adamant about their attitude, it will be safe to run away from them.

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Great information. In my experience those traits are co-mingled in MOST people like that, unfortunately! Nice people (like me) always want to give them the benefit of the doubt! So, we (I) am also in denial when I don't dump them! ;)

Lol, it is really nice to be of help to those who need it particularly emotionally, but we must be careful that it doesn't get into us and turn us into toxic people as well you will agree with me that most times we are a perfect reflection of the people we move with.

I suppose that is true yes. --Grateful that I'm able to look and to see this. It allows ME to make necessary movements and changes for myself to get out of that energy. Thank you.

Hello friend, unfortunately there are people who do not let themselves be helped, and we must move forward, being an independent person also involves realizing whether we need professional help or not, to listen to others and see if we are doing things right. It is sad but sometimes we must go on with our lives, if people don't let themselves be helped we can't do anything else but go on living. Greetings!!!

I agree that not everyone can be helped and most often for the sake of our sanity and our own personal well-being and development, we really need to let go of some associations.