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As human beings, we are meant to possess some quality of anger or annoyance towards people or certain situations we can no longer tolerate depending on our level of tolerance. There are actually some people who get angry easily immediately you offend them and they tend to vent their anger on you at that same spot while some people won't bother showing you they are angry with you whenever you offend them.

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These set of people may keep tolerating your attitude until it get to a stage whereby they may not be able to tolerate your attitude anymore and they will be left with no choice than to vent the whole annoyance they've been holding for such a long period of time on you. I guess this explains why we can never be equal when it comes to our level of tolerance and attitude.

My Kind of Personality

I'm a kind of person who doesn't get angry very fast due to my high level of tolerance. I really find it difficult pouring out my annoyance on people due to my introverted nature. I don't like trouble (wahala) and I try as much as possible to avoid problem because I'm an easy going person with a soft boy lifestyle.

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The problem I'm always having is that the people I love the most are mostly the ones that do get me upset but I can never hold grudges against them neither can I ever vent my anger towards them because they are very precious to me.

Why Do We Always Get Offended By The People We Love The Most ?

I still always ask myself this particular question almost everyday and I'm yet to get a valuable answer to my question. I am always astonished whenever I notice my loved ones stepping on my nerves just to get me angry while people who aren't too close to me never do such a thing.

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I could remember the day one of my best friend named TJ frustrated me in the engineering workshop during lecture period. I always love to be focused and attentive whenever lecture is ongoing in class. My best friend knew that I hated all sort of distractions during lecture but I actually didn't know what got over him that day. He kept disturbing me and playing with me even after i warned him about such act but unfortunately we ended up getting caught by the lecturer whom later disgraced us in the presence of all other students.

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I actually felt so bad about the incident and at the same time I was also very annoyed but I just had to overlook the whole drama since he is my best friend and misunderstanding will definitely occur in every relationships it's just a matter of how you settle and solve the problem. We both reconciled later that evening and he promised such won't repeat itself again. We dined, played and enjoyed ourselves later that day forgetting the whole incident as bye-gone and today we are cool.

Summary and Conclusion

In summary and conclusion, I really find it very difficult staying angry with my loved ones for a very long period. I just can't withstand not getting in touch with them for a longer period of time all because of mere misunderstanding which can be resolved and settled amicably. I just really want to be cool with everyone around me and I see no reason prolonging my duration of anger for a longer period of time when such act can later affect my state of well-being just like a statement made by Ralph Emerson who once stated that "for every minute you remain angry, you give up 60 seconds peace of mind". Why would I want to keep loosing my piece of mind when the people I think I'm angry at are busy enjoying their lives happily?.. Giving up on anger and reconciling very fast with your loved ones is a good sign of good living and a healthy lifestyle.

About Me

I am Adebola by name and I'm also a graduate of Agricultural Engineering (BSC). I am someone who cherish self development and being productive is in my DNA, this is why I am always open to learning from anyone and I love making research. I have been in the crypto space for the past five years and my level of enthusiasm for cryptocurrency and blockchain technology keeps increasing day by day. My hobbies are reading, writing, eating, engaging in agricultural operations, travelling, designing and blogging. My skills include Content writing, Graphic Design, UI/UX (Product) Deisgn, Copywriting, Internet Marketing, Blogging, Research and Coding (Novice). Feel free to connect with me via;

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