come back with me tonight and I hope you have a nice day and on this occasion tonight I want to post about dependence is a comfort that most people don't know how dangerous it is to become too dependent just because they are very comfortable in the process and we get carried away without realizing it that we abandon the truth of others. imagine living completely on drugs to be productive it feels good and comfortable and there is always a sense of security that comes with it that whenever drugs are available you will always be productive but without drugs you know that you are worthless and this is when it starts to occur to you that you it's nothing without drugs and you will always be at its mercy which shows that you are living someone else's life.
There are so many things we can rely on, be it humans, substances, bad qualities, and so on, but as humans, one of the things we can rely on seems much more dangerous is depending on humans because this doesn't only impact ourselves. us when they are not there, but even when they are present, it still affects us because depending on others means they can make decisions for you, whether right or wrong. Whether you like it or not, you will always follow their advice. Which causes you to live in someone else's reality and not yours.
Sometimes, when we live in someone else's world, it doesn't always feel right, and we know that only because we know that doing what they ask us to do is not what we want to do or what we should do, but we indeed did it. unsure of ourselves, and we've lived long enough to be unsure of ourselves, and relying on their advice and what they ask for, we lose confidence as time goes by. We become afraid and question every decision we make on our own, and in the end, we turn to them for help and guidance.
If you are too dependent, it will kill your ability to grow in self-confidence and also grow dependent on yourself, and this is because you never do anything alone. It can be difficult to make decisions that will change your life in the long run. As humans, we always depend on things that work for us. We don't want to change too many things that have served us well, which is why people always go back to the person who gave them advice, even when they don't fully understand what we're going through at the moment or situation. it may have changed since the last time they gave us advice because we're afraid we can't make important decisions on our own which wears away at self-confidence over time But don't get us wrong, there's no harm in seeking advice.
It's good to always remember that sometimes you need advice, you need to seek help, but in the end, always choose the best fit for you because you are the only person who understands your story better and regardless. when you always choose what is best for you, you will learn in the process of choosing. The more you learn, the more you become better. When you depend completely on yourself, it creates a sense of self-confidence, and it is too late to expand your understanding to better make the right choices in the future by depending on yourself.