Perhaps we have not thought that the capacity that we can develop to make transcendental decisions does not come so much from the knowledge we may have about a certain point, but rather it is determined by the fluency we can have when making a decision.
If we do not develop that fluency at the moment of being able to make decisions we can really have problems in different environments of our life, going through work and even personal problems, the benefit of a psychological help can undoubtedly help us to solve this problem, however to be able to understand that a psychological solution is viable it is important that the person knows the causes that originate the difficulty in people to make a decision.
This constant search of wanting everything to go perfectly well, can be a cause of having problems when making a decision, because when we want everything to be perfect we hesitate to make a decision for fear of failure, the case is such that, instead of getting a favorable effect, on the contrary what we get is everything adverse in achieving the objectives set.
Time is also very influential when looking for extreme perfectionism, since for fear of failure we often procrastinate and go around trying to carry out our project, once we have already made the decision to act to present our project, time has already advanced, there is not much time left and because of that lack of decision at the beginning, it does not end up looking bad.
The lack of communication with other colleagues can lead us to lack the assertiveness so necessary at the moment of making a transcendental decision, many times this lack of communication is due to the fact that what we have to communicate is uncomfortable for us because the news that transmits is potentially conflictive for the environment with the other person, however we must be capable enough to face this situation and make the decision to communicate what has to be communicated.
The dependence on other people to advise us in all the decisions we are going to make is a great influence in the decision making that can range from the most common to the most important, many times we doubt a decision that is only in our hands and we can even postpone it because the doubt arises based on that dependence on someone else to make the decision for us.
The important thing is that we know what may be the cause of our lack of decision making and based on that we can make corrections taking into account that psychological factors will always be present.
Most times we ignore others people point of view in helping us view the decision we want to take. Most time we think we can take it by ourselves and then at the end of the day we take wrong decisions
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Hello friend @mandato. Certainly many times we make the wrong decisions and do not listen to advice from other people who can help us make a decision that can be positive, many times we hesitate to make a decision for fear of failure but also do not listen to the opinion of another person. Greetings and thanks for your support
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hello @sandracarrascal,
many people believe that in order to do things or make decisions that positively affect their life everything has to be perfect, for them the "if I don't do it right I don't do it" ends up being a chain that ties them to a kind of procastination that prevents them from progressing, life is not perfect and everything we do we do at the right time there is no perfect time to make decisions there is only the opportunity to grow as a person, there are only decisions taken at the right time, if you want to do something have the courage to do it because there is no better time than now.
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Hello friend @trabajosdelsiglo. I agree with you many people are wrong is that, in life there is nothing perfect, we should not depend on someone else to determine a decision that only belongs to us whether for good or bad, but that is a decision of our own, sometimes we are presented with positive opportunities that are lost because we are not able to make a decision, the important thing is that we know what may be the cause of our lack of decision making and based on that we can make corrections taking into account that psychological factors will always be present. Greetings and thanks for your support
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Yes you are very right the dependence in other people to advise us in all the decisions we are going to make is a great influence in the decisions making.
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Hello friend @ppadelux. Many times we depend on another person to make a decision either positive or negative, as many times we doubt a decision that we should only take it ourselves and we can postpone it because the doubt arises based on that dependence on someone else to make the decision for us. Greetings and thanks for your support
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You can’t live a positive life with a negative mind so, u need to believe in yoursel and feel good about yourself. Also Life is not about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself. A man who dares to waste one hour of time has not discovered the value of life, and no matter how hard we try, life will never be perfect though but at the same time you have to be confidence, improve your self-esteem and makes sure you are able to handle whatever life brings in your way.
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Hello friend @benie111. I agree with you we need to believe in ourselves in our abilities and skills when making a decision, life as much as we want it to be perfect because we will never achieve it and it is important to feel good about ourselves to be able to do things well and that way everything flows better until a certain decision without relying on advice, always keep a high self-esteem, trust ourselves, be positive. Greetings and thanks for your support.
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This is true, we need to worry less about being judged by others as that leads to unnecessary fear of making mistakes. Fixate on a goal and be brave ro make the decisions required to meet it.
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Hello friend @awah. Certainly we should not worry about what others think, that leads us to a world of insecurity that drags us to make wrong decisions, we must study what may be the cause of our lack of decision making and based on that we can make corrections and make the right decisions. Greetings and thanks for your support.
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Decision-making skills are important indeed. The people who always wait for the best result out of each decision usually lose the most. They will lose the chance to make a proper decision in the meantime to benefit from it and they will lose the whole chance if it was something important just because they delayed it so much.
Nice read, thanks for sharing!
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Hello friend @lennyblogs. Exactly the skills are very important at the time of decision making, many times we doubt a decision that is only in our hands and we can even postpone it because the doubt arises from the dependence we have to wait for an advice from a third person to be able to make our decisions. Greetings and thank you for your support
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I like this article and it makes me think. Sometimes we feel so much in need of acceptance that we make decisions based on what others think. We should be able to decide what to do for ourselves, if it does not involve causing harm to another person. Thank you for the publication
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Hello friend @lynnmargullys. Yes it is true many times we have the need for acceptance and it is a mistake to make decisions based on the criteria and thoughts of other people, we must feel confident in ourselves and our decisions for better or worse, I do not deny that many times are good accessories but based on that we must focus and have our own decision and not let others decide for us and our lives. Greetings and thank you for your support
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