Why do I always choose the wrong person?

in hive-175254 •  5 days ago 

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Perhaps this is a very frequent question in many people who when looking for a partner end up choosing wrong, and it is because we get carried away by one side of the scale, and is that to choose a partner is very important to put all the factors to evaluate in the balance.

If we choose wrong, it is not a matter of bad luck, but rather it is the consequence of letting ourselves be carried away by our impulses, emotions, instead of thinking with the mind.

What do we learn from a young age about relationships?

It is a question that we can ask ourselves once we gain experience in our lives, and that will help us to reflect on the fact of all the experiences we have had throughout our lives concerning relationships.

We all learn from what happens to us and not from what we are told, and life is made to learn from our experiences and not from the experiences of others, since the variables at play are not the same for all human beings.

There are patterns of behavior that make us choose in a certain way, so the choice of our partner is predetermined by those patterns, but are we really willing to sacrifice those patterns for a good choice?

Therein lies the key, we must break with the patterns that we already have predetermined and put our mind to work for the welfare of our personal interests.

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Actually I have come to discover that the issue is we chose the wrong person probably because we did not understand the person much more