This is interesting, I have seen a family whereby the parent are been respected and honour in the society because they live a good life but along the line, one of the family member possess opposite of the lifestyle. Who are to blame? The parent? in my own opinion, I think it's all depend on the life children want to live. Being a good parent doesnt mean all the children I'll be good but parent still need to know how to nurture and train their children in appropriate way. My contribution. Good luck to you.