There are many happy father's day greeting on my news feed. But for me father's day must be celebrated everyday especially if your father if he is still around is quite old already and in the sunset of his lifetime. Then it is better to give him more love and support and make the remainder of his life to feel that he is loved.
I do not have much plans today but maybe to buy some pork leg, tenderize it in the pot and then roasting it in my convection oven and then enjoy it after.
But my father is not inclined in eating fatty foods, the high in cholesterol ones. It is also not good to eat together with him on the table because he always preaches about not eating high cholesterol foods so you will in turn look at your plate because of that and then lose your appetite.
Sometimes he will say that somebody died eating the same food as you are eating at the moment. I hate him when he does that. So basically it is just better to eat alone than to eat with him. I tried to bring him once to a restaurant and he just act-up as he lost his appetite, not finishing the rice that was served unto him.
My father really has an odd characteristic, when you tell him something he will do the opposite and he will just support you when you are in the pedestal of success and doesn't offer encouragement if you are down and low at something.
That is why he didn't strive to help me out with my medical condition, he already gave-up on me before trying. But that is just him, not all people are capable of doing what we expect them to do.
Well if I can enumerate what my father hadn't done to us his children it would not sound good. But again he can just offer what he got and because he hasn't gotten much to offer we just have to contend on what we received as his family.
I just wished that we had a lot of good memories worth my father like going in vacations or even eating out. But not even once he took us out in a restaurant to eat so it is just not a pleasant thought just like my life, not much had happened but a life with dreams that never happened.
Still I am thankful that my father is still around, he is actually dependable in what he has to offer which is to drive me around but with limitations and that is all and still a crucial factor for my survival.
He is also a bit health conscious even though he could not lose the fish sauce dipping, his every mouthful should have a pit stop to the salty dipping fish sauce before it goes to his mouth. SO in turn he got the hypertension because of that. He couldn't be told about that saying that he is just an exception and its funny, that is my father and more.