Thank you! I truly feel invigorated after reading this. You know exactly what I am trying to express. I think hand ups are much better than hand outs. I am learning how to not just hold peoples' hands through tough processes but ask them questions that will lead to their own clarity. And it's not as easy as it seems. Not for me anyway. And thank you for telling me not to accept responsibility for another's actions... can't forget something as important as that (though it slips my mind always).