That is very true! I wonder what others see in me since I am not even sure what I see in myself!
RE: "Caricature and similarity" - in Desirable Pearls - 25
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The people see us totally different then we see ourselves ;)
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I will never forget one of my psychotherapy workshops years ago, when I was still in school. Our instructor told us to work in pairs. We were to give the other person a detailed description of our personality and what we thought of ourselves - positive things only, no self-criticism. Then the partner was to refer our description to the entire group. The results were amazing. Almost everyone added to the description something from their own perspective. Let's say, I never said I was a good cook, but my partner said that anyway, although he never got to try my cooking before.
Looks like people see us in a much better light than we see ourselves. And if we speak positively about others and ourselves, we'll be given way more credit for it, than expected.
Best regards, MWise! :)
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Sometimes we are so busy that we do not see our values. People looking from the side, they see more. It is worth listening to other whispers :) Hugs and kisses my dear Katie :)
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