We all know what good and pleasant treatment of people is. But not many people ever stop to think about how they can improve the treatment of people in their lives.
What are the things that make you and your loved ones happy? When you look back over the past year, have you ever found yourself gazing into a happy face? That is a happy person.
Where did those happy smiles come from? Did it happen because you made them? Did you know what made people happy, that you were happy?
Are you happy because you had good times? People can only be happy in the midst of good times. So if you've been making other people miserable, then why should they be happy with you? How can they be happy when you're not happy?
What is pleasant to you? Do you like doing what you're doing? You would be surprised at the number of people who actually do nothing but work hard and work tirelessly just to keep up with the Joneses.
What about pleasant? Why do you like what you like? Is it your job? Does being a CEO make you feel good?
Maybe you love what you do for a reason that has nothing to do with getting nice things or having nice things. When you love what you're doing, you get pleasure from doing it, and that pleasure is what makes it pleasant.
Pleasant is not something that you do. Pleasant is what you become when you let go of unnecessary concerns and take pleasure in the simple things in life.