I have to admit that the approach of summer and the warmth of the weather has made me physically and psychologically sluggish.
"We know how to become complacent physically, but how does one become complacent spiritually?" Your inquiries are audible to me.
Let me try to clarify; I am an over-perfectionist in terms of overall structure; I am known for meticulously studying every subject and event, and for imbuing everything with far too much meaning. Despite the fact that I recognise the benefits of all of these qualities in many areas, I'd want to underline that it is my parasite at times, making it tough for me to take a step.
All of this, of course, applies to me. So, what occurred that my thoughts about summer become complacent?
I frequently go over a subject in my head several times, especially if I've just gone through a stressful situation. "What did the person in front of me say, how did he act, what did I learn from this, and how could I avoid this situation in the future?" and a slew of other questions keep circling in my thoughts... I usually leave these open sessions with a lesson in my head. However, with summer approaching, I don't have the time or energy to completely question it. As a result of this, I was able to bring a sense of tranquilly to my emotions.
Of course, that's not all... Allowing this mental court to take place made me see how exhausting my attitude about circumstances was. Not only did I become exhausted, but I also discovered that most of the time, with my questions, the subject had gotten too large, and that my over-inquiring attitude frequently diverted my attention away from the "primary subject" by delving further into the occurrences.
I was pushing myself so hard that I realised I would appreciate it a lot more if I stayed calm and looked at the scene from above without plunging too deep. "Holding on to anything is like holding your breath," Deepak Chopra observed. Eventually, you will sink. In the material universe, the only way to gain anything is to give it away. "Make it yours forever."
So, without diving so deep, in the face of a difficulty, I sometimes liberated my breath and made an observation hill for myself, from which I gaze at the view. Without getting into detail, I observe a variety of scenarios from afar.
As a result, the summer's complacency served to soothe the seas within me. I can now look at my life more calmly and without being exhausted. Instead of asking why me, why did this happen, I find it really enjoyable. If this is the case, there is undoubtedly something for my benefit, and I express my gratitude for the opportunity to live this life and allow it to fade into eternity.
In moments like these, the power of words also comes in handy. With only a single word, we can sometimes solve a problem we've been pondering for a long time. With the help of a recent experience, I was able to grasp this concept. I asked the questions out loud this time after thinking about an event for a long period. I didn't want my thoughts to be the only one to pass judgement; I wanted the people around me to do it as well. Before I could even proceed to the interrogation, I revealed the matter, and my adorable 11-year-old nephew responded, "It's still conceivable"... We were walking together. I abruptly came to a halt. "It's okay" struck me as so powerful that I wanted to chew on it.
Here's the miraculous sentence that appeared to me, allowing me to see it through the eyes of a child.
Why do they think so much that it exhausts me? We should let go of everything that exhausts us at times... Why? It's just a fact of life...
So, do you have any special words? Otherwise, just say "it's okay" and ignore whatever is making you exhausted; you'll be amazed at how much lighter you become.