Do you Believe in Love at First Sight?

in love •  7 years ago 

No one believes in love at first sight until that special person comes along and steals your heart.

Love at First Sight?

Love maybe a magical thing you can ever experience, but is it really love when you first saw someone and got mesmerized?

As defined by Wikipedia :

  • Love at first sight is a personal experience and a common trope in literature in which a person, character, or speaker feels an instant, extreme, and ultimately long-lasting romantic attraction for a stranger on the first sight of them.

This is going crazy, but, but ... from the moment I first set my eyes on you I haven't been able to stop thinking about you" - Leigh Fallon, Carrier if the Mark

Yes it is! Its an extreme feeling at an instant, that dazzling eyes, that sparking smiles, and that amazing you! Did I just say you? Not exactly, but this is just a clarification if this so called exist. Is it just because we perceived it as it is? How is it different from admiration? Appreciation? Maybe the level of feeling? Or we're just exaggerating things?

Does it really matter?

I think I got the nerves to say its **unnecessary. Maybe its admiration, appreciation, likeness, or love at first sight - the important thing is you got attracted to that person, and that you must do the next move to level up the stage.

It is not Easy to Explain

Or was it just a mere sexual attraction? Some people deny it saying that it's just a mere hormonal attraction. Is there even a thing love at first glance? How did it persuay you to to believe that she's the person you want to spend with the rest of your life? Could that even be possible?

"Love at First Sight" arguments

One important factor is the person's character traits, say like honesty, loyalty, kindness, wisdom, and experience. Those were the noticeable things a person falls into love, but its you can not get that in just a glance!.

The point is we cannot get those characteristics in just a single sight. The person's aura may be a good factor, but it doesn't determine the overall outlook a person has. Besides, most of the people who was love at first sight by somebody are those attractive people. It is very rare to be attracted/mesmerized to a person who's not attractive. Yes right?

But Lately

I was mesmerized. That dazzling super-saiyan V aura struck me. I don't know, that driving force made me took a picture together. I prefer not to share it lol. Yeah, it was a strange feeling. A feeling of something unusual, unique. She's not attractive, sexy (Hmm quite?), what I like was the energy field. The magnetic energy present around her is extremely strong, so strong that pull me closer to her. Funny thing, I made this laughing.

If you were to define. Do you believe?

Share us your thoughts. Your knowledge is power, your wisdom is a blessing. Let's have a conversation.

Some references :
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/in-the-name-love/201311/is-love-first-sight-possible

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really very unbelievable, i with my wife experienced the name "love at first sight"

In my current relationship, I would really describe mine as love at first sight. It was the sweetest thing ever for the FIRST Few months of relationship. Slowly when times passed by, conflicts happened because we did not know each other well and did not accept the flaws that we had. First sight is always looking the best part of a character, the bad ones comes out sooner or later.

It's real tough. I would really advice that please get to know someone before accepting them as a partner.

Awe. This means a lot. Thanks @notimetospace 😊

how can anyone love anyone at first sight....
first sight things are purely based on attraction... which we confuse with love....

Lol...i second you bruv

That's a wonderful thought @hamet123. Thanks for opening it up. :)

I agree. Sometimes, the attraction is so strong that we often call it as "love".
It somehow takes a couple of time to confirm if it is "love" or just a mere admiration.

So that happened few days ago @smaeunabs to you? :P

I already forgot the feeling of being in love. Hahahahaha igat ra

Hmm."Love" is different in words.It cannot describe with mouth need only mind.

Awww. That's so sweet of you!

My first love is pineapple pie on my childhood days. Until now I love it.

Thanks mate! 😊

as much as I believe in love the first sight, I also know the hatred in the last sight;)

Many people say that within 5 minutes of meeting a person you know if you are going to be with him\her or not.
Many times it has happened to me that I have met someone and the first impression has been bad but then I have had a relationship.
A relationship that ended badly.
It is also true that I have fallen in love at first sight, but the important thing is not that, if you don't take care of the love that exists between the two it probably be consumed.

The days of love have begun to emerge.
It 's nice to have a sweet posting. Let's be friends.

Sure @tata1 ! Thanks for adding your thoughts here. I appreciate it.

Uhn... But is there really love at first sight? i do not believe it exists. I am aware of attraction. To like someone there should be an attraction, an admiration and not love. Love grows gradually. It's a process and it builds up to its full bloom after two people have summered and wintered together. Thanks for this write up.