👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Nice Nice Debate 🤗

So I saw this catchy and interesting post 🤔 and I was like maybe I should just mind my business 🚶‍♀️🚶‍♀️and upvote without comment 🤫....

But What the Hell 🤷🏼‍♀️ After all it’s my opinion

So the debate in proper ............
Anicient love and Modern Love 🤗

Firstly, I think we are forgetting that things have really changed 🤷🏼‍♀️ E.g Advancement in Technology

Secondly, Dress Sense has changed 🤷🏼‍♀️.......

i am so sure that no guy will see a girl dressed in the ancient way and modern way and not go for the modern girl because of the class not necessarily dressing to expose herself or being half naked

Those two points are just Important Notes for this debate 👆🏽👆🏽

My opinion in proper..........
For me I won’t say I prefer ancient love because I am not ancient oh yeah👅 I am modern 🤗😂...
In as much as I envy some of the characteristics of those people opportuned to be wedded (our parents ) at that time ; true love , respect and humility ....I still go with modern love 🤗 but my own terms👅

Here are my reasons .....👇🏽

I am modern , I love romance and I love care from my spouse 😊

I can’t say because things looked more perfect in the ancient days then I will go with the way things were done then 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

Hellooooo......I Should be Moving forward and Upward not Backwards to the Ancient days

Nobody wey no like better thing

There’s nothing wrong with the way things are being done now🤷🏼‍♀️

The breakfast in bed thing 🤷🏼‍♀️
The lavishing with gifts
The wedding proposal and ......
The big wedding thing 🤗

I believe relationship /weddings are personal not public 🤷🏼‍♀️
If you and your spouse are ok with it , then go for it 🏃🏽‍♀️💃🏼
There’s nothing wrong with a man helping his wife with chores when he’s free🤷🏼‍♀️....
After all she’s your wife and not your maid 😡

for me it’s romantic 😍when we do it together , it’s not because I can’t do it alone but because you love me that much to wanna be around me even when I’m busy with chores

Note: I am not saying it’s compulsory , if he’s cool with it why not 🤷🏼‍♀️

Breakfast in Bed does not mean that the woman is lazy or just didn’t think it’s time to be up to make breakfast 🙄.....
It’s something the man took upon himself to do just to show care and love to his wife 😊
It doesn’t happen all the time ,why reject when he offers😍

Lustful thoughts at the site of your spouse 🙈

Who said in the ancient days those thoughts didn’t occur ?????🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

Were you there ???????

As naija Dey talk am body no be fire wood

It’s sad that most modern relationships are defined by sex 🙈 but hello ..........who says it has to be so for all????🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

You decide how you want your relationship to be 🤗

Like I said it’s a personal thing , if you decide to make yours a public matter then that’s your problem🤷🏼‍♀️

For me I am with the modern love but my own way not necessarily following what the crowd is doing....🤷🏼‍♀️

Modern love doesn’t care what the others think, you are entitled to your opinion and actions 👏🏼
Free to decide who you wanna be with and how you want your relationship to be 😍.......
Not the old way where you just find yourself spending the rest of your life with a man you were matched with by your parents and you have to ensure you make it work.🤦🏽‍♀️ Learn to love each other 😔

I go with the modern love ❤️ but remember my own terms not the public 💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼

Peace out ✌️