The Virtues of Solitude

in solitude •  7 years ago 

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Solitude which is the need of every soul yet undiscovered, because everyone fears of being alone.

We feel so insecure about being alone that we have a created a world to escape that. We want to be connected on all social networking sites, we want to be seen and all the likes n hearts deciding our worth. We are constantly seeking attention and validation from others, which makes heavily depend on others.

But why such state ? Because we haven't learnt to be with our self.

Solitude is not being lonely, which most people think of that.

There's a huge difference between Solitude and Loneliness

  • In loneliness you are always in negative state , In Solitude you're in peaceful state

  • Loneliness makes you dependent on others, In Solitude all you need is your self

  • Loneliness makes you slave to people or habits, In Solitude you become aware of them

  • Loneliness makes you disconnect from others, Where as in Solitude makes you develop good relationship

Solitude is our state of being, which we owe to our self which we have lost it in the fallacy of this world.
We are responsible for our misery n happiness . By becoming more Mindful and meditative we may find our aloneness which will turn the miser loneliness into the calm aloneness.

Some of the advantages which can be gained by giving some time for yourself

Discovery of self
When some honesy time is spent on introspection, then one can realize what are his needs, strength and weakness.
Which will prove beneficial to in self improvement phase.

Calm mind
When we are upset or anxiety, our mind is a place of thoughts. Which will make us only to take haste decisions.
But with some meditative n calm mind helps us to take better decision.

Immune to other opinions
When you know yourself better, then others judgement will not effect you.

More productive
Being free from gossip and mental clutters will surely make your mind to focus on the things which are important.

All you just need to do is spent time for yourself, because your inner self needs you


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Excellent post! It is about time people understand the value of solitude. Am tagging it for @originalworks

Thank you so much mate! :)

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It is my own firm belief that the strength of the soul grows in proportion as you subdue the flesh.

- Mahatma Gandhi

Wise words from the old man :D

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

good one bhai.solitude is more so good for loneliness ..more confidence with Solitude

Amazing elaboration, i like state of solitude but most people don't realize the difference between them yet.

Yes its still an alien thing for many :/
Btw thanks for reading

You are always welcome :)

Excellent your post. Thank your sharing. @atafauzan79

Glad you liked it :)

Great topic! vishal, It sounds like me. I am solitude, I like to think for a moment and dedicate time to myself. I come to a point in my life that nothing offends me personally because I study people closely and this helps a lot.

That's cool of you @heavenlycruz , indeed a some time spent of self, will have greatly benefits in future. Even i do the same.

Nice post.

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Good comparision between loneliness and solitude bro @vishal09

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