How do I succeed on Steemit? If you’re asking yourself that, it’s the wrong question.
As a part time Dating Coach I am asked this question several times a week: “How can I get pretty girls to like me?”
That is a loaded question, isn’t it? And so many ask that or a variation. But that is the wrong question!
How do I succeed on Steemit?
How do I get pretty girls to like me?
They are one and the same.
Succeeding on Steemit takes the same skills it takes to woo a pretty girl!
But you must first ask yourself the right question. Instead of asking “How can I get pretty girls to like me” ask yourself “How can I become the type of person pretty girls like?”
When you ask yourself the correct question, you will come to a realization. You may decide to pay more attention to your appearance, or broaden your vocabulary. Perhaps you will decide you need to spend less time on your favorite video game and use that time to go out and do fun things that will allow you to use your newfound realization in a setting where pretty girls are found.
Instead of asking yourself “How do I succeed on Steemit?” Ask “How do I become what Steemit needs?”
What do you have to offer your followers?
What sets you apart from the other thousand writers who are saying the same thing this week?
What can you do to better yourself for your current and potential followers?
That is the question.
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hahah you are funny
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But it's true ;)
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The is the quintessential @arbitrarykitten post. The accuracy runs deep, and the struggle is real :)
@tayken sends his ♥
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Right back at ya @tayken
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This...so much!
Not to mention, you can easily compare the "follow for follow" and "upvote for upvote" crowds as the kind of people who say "hello" and a minute later say "I love you" to a pretty girl and propose marriage.
Yeah...how's that working out? Exactly.
That said, excellent post! :)
Cheers!
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YES! Exactly!
Thank you :)
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An informative post presented in an entertaining way by the always magical @arbitrarykitten. :)
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Thanks doll!
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Oh, it's always my pleasure. :)
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Thanks for pointing out another view on Steemit haha. You are absolutely correct on this! +1
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After reading this, I must be a ladies man haha :)
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;)
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Yup, and now it just hit me...
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The Kramer is my FAV!
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I like your perspective. Quite a unique take on the whole Steemit success conundrum. And it comes down to reframing the question. Having the right approach. Taking on another person's point of view, and looking at things through their eyes.
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Humans have this silly thing that gets in the way of a lot of things in their lives. Even their own happiness. The Ego. "How do I succeed" is a question asked by the Ego. When you push that pesky blinder aside, you can contemplate your questions broadly and without restraint.
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Haha, very true! We have to always endear to better ourselves. Loving ourselves as individuals while at the same time focusing on what we can achieve in the future automatically sends out the right "vibes" that attract others to us. Be the beacon for others to see in the darkness. Thanks! It was nice talking to you in Discord as well. Take care.
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Well said.
Like attracts like, birds of a feather, you are who you hang around, and all that jazz ;)
It is wonderful meeting you!
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Every girl I come into contact I insta friend zone them! I couldn't stop laughing when reading this post because if it's like dating a pretty girl then I already friend zoned steemit before anything😂😂😂 Steemit is my new homie😎None the less keep up your content!
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Oh, man, I could not stop laughing! You are definitely the first person who has friend zoned Steemit!
ROFL!
Thank you, lol, I enjoyed our mutual giggle fest :D
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Thank you wise and arbitrary kitten. Appreciate the view of an experienced writer. 🐓🐓
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<3
Wonderful meeting you!
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Like wise My Lady. 🐓🐓
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I hope you will consider a new tag I am proposing called #humanrelations for posts like this. I feel we are sorely in need of tag specifically for Social Skills, Body Language, Relationship Advice, ect.
see this post: New Tag Campaign - #HumanRelations for more information.
(#notabot Genuine Alien Interaction)
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Hah, Mr. Bean said, "Talk directly to the hand, and STEP back!!!"
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Not awkward at all
;)
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He looked totally comfortable ;)
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HE was, but the poor gal... Lol!
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Hey, maybe he's autistic like Temple Grandin and don't play hugs. She should have brought him a wooden box, not her fleshy appendages! ;)
I actually got curious and looked it up. Several people posting at an autism forum thought the character was autistic. Rowan Atkinson says, “...he’s basically a child trapped in a man’s body."
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Interesting. Makes sense...
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You nailed it. Explaining something with the proper examples or analogies is the best way there is.
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Thank you!
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The truth is that to followers want interesting, engaging and informative posts. If anyone consistently comes up with this, they will most likely succeed on steem. Thank you for sharing
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That and consistency. You must keep moving toward your goals :)
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Lol ! that's true man :) Thumbs up for this post keep posting :)
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Lol, Thanks! I appreciate it <3
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Thank you! 💘
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Anytime :) And wonderful meeting you!
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Awesome stuff you put love reading it! Resteem
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Much appreciated hun!
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Lol! great read!
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Glad you enjoyed it!
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It gets me thinking....
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wow Really stimulating article
Fantastic analysis in regards to steemit
thank you very much
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I am happy you enjoyed it :)
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