If you are confused as to why many PDKTs fail before "invented", maybe one of the causes is the guy or girl who is overly expecting more, then leads to an aggressive nature. Sure there is a problem is not the same nature of this one. But there is also a direct averse to see the prospective partner is too aggressive.
Especially for girls, we need to have a special defense to address this. Hmmm .... how ya let PDKT run smoothly and we are not considered really ngebet?
- As much as possible avoid the call "honey" "Babe" "Matahariku" or "My Star" and so on during the PDKT. Yes, just invented not yet ...
When the PDKT period, we may be lulled by the romantic sentences from the him. Especially if he is very concerned with you, everytime you get up early, he always say "Good morning, Beautiful. Have a nice day yes ... "or" Congratulations on starting this beautiful day, my dear ... "Well, you do not easily" melt "with those sentences with the reply" Aaawww, so sweet, dear "
As much as possible avoid yes. If it's hard - just remember if you have not invented!
- Your spouse is not a motorcycle taxi driver! Do not be spoiled by asking her to take a meal or take her to campus every day. After all you can be alone
Trying to be independent as best as you can without relying on him who is busy, do not be a girl who is dependent on him. Remember, you are still PDKT!
- When your future partner asks for opinions about something, issue a wise opinion. Do not pretentious cute let alone lebay
Be a girl to work with, girls! Give a wise opinion, such as when he asked if your partner's choice of clothes is suitable and he needs. Not just funny.
- Eating together would be more fun if chatting as necessary, being an old school once in a while no problem, you know!
You will look more pleasant when chatting as you need to eat, do not start laughing or talking too much until your food is dianggurin, and finally cold. Then lazy eaten, deh.
- Be firm about the physical relationship. Whatever happens, do not be too 'close' until the most appropriate time arrives
As much as possible, no matter how strong you feel, try to keep the "distance" with it. Do not want to grepe-grepe before the time. In addition to taking care of yourself, you will also be much more appreciated.
- Well, make sure also yes if your prospective partner is not the type of guy who likes to show off, so your non-aggressive tricks work!
"Eh, look at me bro, this girl I've called me dear."
"Hahahaha, I'm so nervous to hold my hands first."
"Ah kesel if gini continue, every day ask anterin eat the same shopping."
Do not want girls, if you diginiin same candidate your partner? Well, that depends on you, yes, PDKT is a good time to select which guy is your soulmate candidate or not.
- Do not be too exaggerated to show your PDKT status in social media. You will only be considered lebay later.
"Senengnya new way with him, thank you for today ya A."
"Ouch dazed deh, just met this morning aja sorenya already missed again ..."
The phrases above often you make a status in social mediamu? Ouch, does it seem excessive? Though not yet invented.
- You must stay cool! Try to always look relaxed & calm when meeting with him. Even in the chest it's also a degg
Any chance to meet him, try you always be calm yes, do not easy to indulge in laughter or often start a chat ngalor ngidul with him. Give him time to tell him about him too, so you can get to know each other well.
Here are a few tricks for your PDKT business to run smoothly without any aggressive nature. Good luck and good luck PDKT him yes, girls!