Hi everyone and welcome to my blog. Today I shall be doing something entirely different. Yes, I want to start my ulog journey with a story of what happened to me today. Well it isn't a new story as I have written the first part before hoping it will end it all but no way.
For those who have been my ardent followers, I am sure you remember the post about my boss wanting a piece of my cookie jar right? Oh yes! Turns out this man won't let me have peace. The last time I wrote about it @surpassinggoogle hasn't invented the #ulog and now I'm glad I can talk about myself using the perfect tag.
Okay, today I woke up very happy. I have been happy since last weekend because I had so much fun over the weekend and I'm still basking in the euphoria of it all. On getting to work, I got lots of stares from my colleges and compliments on how I look different, radiant and happy. Well, I alone knew my secret and of cos you reading this now so hush....they don't have to know it's the weekend trip...hehehehe
As usual, my boss came to work and I greeted him with a smile. I could see the surprise on his face as he turned to look at me.
"You look really happy today. What could be the secret? You always squeeze your face while greeting me but today is different", he said smiling at me.
I knew he was right. I never smile while greeting him. Not because I'm an angry lady but because I do not want to give him any wrong signal.
"I am always happy sir. Welcome", I smiled at him.
"Please come help me buy breakfast. You know the way I like it right?" He continued.
"Yes sir! How about I make it two plates, one for you and one for me", I replied still shinning my white teeth.
He looked at me bewildered. "This would be the first time you will ever ask anything from me", he replied dipping his hand in his pocket. "Here, take, buy an extra plate for yourself".
Sincerely, I never knew he would even respond to my demand. Happy I whisked away to go buy the breakfast. I came back and dropped his on his table and handed over the change to him.
"Thank you very much, sir" I greeted settling on my desk.
"You know you are always welcome, it is just that you are running away from me", he started and that was how my beautiful day turned sour. He went on talking about how he wants me and how he won't stop until he has got me. Unfortunately, I tried not to pay attention to his babbling so I didn't get most of what he was saying except he asks me a question that demands a response.
"I know you have a boyfriend", he blabbed on. "I won't demand much sex from you but I would take good care of you. Perhaps the sex may just be once or twice a week so it shouldn't be a problem between you and your boyfriend".
Is this man for real? I thought to myself trying to control the anger building up within me. I summoned courage. I needed to stop him. He has blabbed enough and goodness me, the food is getting cold. If he continues like this I may just lose appetite.
"I am sorry sir", I cut in, "the answer I gave before still stands. What you are asking for is against everything I believe. You are my boss and a married man. I can't do this. I'm sorry it is impossible". I paused hoping he gets the message but hope was far from me.
" You know, I am not denying the fact that I am married" he continued rubbing his hand on his potbelly, a disgusting sight. "The fact that I am married even makes it better because I won't demand too much sex from you and I will take good care of you. You see I have dated two ladies in the past that we're in a serious relationship and I helped....." He trailed on.
At this moment I couldn't contain it anymore. Why are some men so shameless. How can you want to have an affair with your staff? Someone you would see everyday. Why would you even consider cheating on your wife? Okay yeah I'm angry so don't blame me for flaring up.
Anyway, I had to stand on my ground without shifting. Of cos I wasn't going to shift grounds. He is a married man and he is my boss. It is simply a mission impossible. I hammered on it and I hope it sank in because he finally asked me to help him recommend one of my friends.
You know what they say about show me your friend and I will tell you who you are? Too bad, my friends are like me. We don't play in muddy waters. He was obviously disappointed and he called it a "double jeopardy". I wouldn't have him and I wouldn't recommend someone to him. He finally dropped the issue when he realized I wasn't willing to yield.
The food? Nah I couldn't eat it again as I lost my appetite. I simply threw it away. Maybe he thought I was Isaac. Nah, I can't sell my precious cookie jar for a plate of food.
Alright my beautiful fans, that is all I have for you today from beautiful disruptions.
Until something spectacular happens again,
Tremendously awesome, I loved reading your post and it was truly unique but your smile took away all the lamp light and make give the article more life.
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Oh yes! 😊 He's right. You look good. Nice hair do
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Oh wow! Thank you so @anikaa. Just keep coming around for more unique posts. You would love reading from me always
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Dear @anikaa, please why did you stop blogging?
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Is this kind of thing that annoys me, why can't some married men stick to their wives. Am glad you stood your ground. No room for compromise on issues like this.
Well done girl. You look stunning!
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Thank you beautiful . It's been a while I saw you @kweenbrand
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Sorry dear. You would see me more often now.
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O.M.G i don't really know why most bosses love use their opportunity as a boss over female staff... Well, there is God oh... Lolz.. I don't me oh.
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It is very comfortable in civil service. I hope every woman learns to stand up for what they believe in.
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First of all, I will like to burst your bubble: there are no secrets on here. Its recorded (((((((((forever))))))))))))
Secondly, why throw away the food?! That's against our beliefs...😏
Well sadly this will continue to happen until you report him, which you and I know won't work-- it's your word against his, and he is your boss.
Or you can simply quit your job, which is not an option. So, my dear, I don't envy you right now (go fetch that food back!)
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Hehehehe @nonz. Okay did you just complicate the issue?
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My dear , @zizymena, i dont think throwing away the food is the option, its not the time you hearing that from, him and i dont think it will be the last either, so stick to your no, and try to give the food out or better still, bcos few are ppl that are looking food to eat..........
I like the way you shut him up...
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Alright! I'll keep that in mind
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This is really nice,i really enjoyed reading this post.
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Thank you so much
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Some bosses sha... They just wanna take advantage of any little show of care. Little smile now, wahala
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I admire your determination to ward off that boss of yours. Here in our country that kind of guy can be sued for sexual harassment! Any way keep your cool and composure, maybe a cold treatment can help. Just do your job and be safe, ok?
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Thank you so much for this wonderful piece of advice. Unfortunately in my country, it will be certain hard sueing for sexual harassment but like you said I'll keep my cool and composure and give him a cold treatment.
Thanks @manvillar
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This is a typical scenario of a Nigerian work environment. The bosses feel like they are the Messiah, that one can't survive without them.
You are quite disciplined for you to stand firm and wouldn't go against your belief. Many would have given in just to enjoy things that are vague and would fade with time.
Meanwhile, I have a question for you. What if he had threatened you with a sack letter, would you bulge?
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Yes I would bulge. If I won't do it is simply I won't do it. Unpleasant situations calls for desperate measures. A sack letter threat could get me setting him up so I can have an evidence against him.
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I think you meant wouldn't right? You know if your boss own the business or organization, you trying to set him up won't really do much to him. The best option would be to quit the job. Such kind of men would go to any length to get what they want. Just try to be safe around that boss pf yours. You might think he has backed down but trust me, he must be thinking of another option to get you.
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Thank you so much @kaliju. I always make my post through esteem
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Zizymena you dey burst brain I swear!
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Awwwww...thanks dear
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That man is very high and really shameless. What was he thinking? Just because you were nice to him he read some other meaning to it. Glad you stood your ground dear.
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Just a smile and he thinks it's a green light. Some men are unbelievable. Thanks for coming @mizdais
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Hahahahahah...i tell you, its not easy to be a fine girl o.
You look real pretty.
And as for the man, well, it not something new, it just proves we still have uncultured and men who cheapen companionship and marriage,
Am happy you took your stand and stood for yourself.
Some ladies would agree to that. To betray the one they are dating and betray their own self.
But its not only married men. even men thay are unmarried would want a taste of the cookie though youre committed to a relationship. Wonder how many ladies would still hold their stand.
I celebrate your strength big sis. And am happy your man found himself a rare gem
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Thank you so much dear @t-flames. Commitment means a whole lot to me. I do not joke with it. I'm not easily swayed by what I see and it has helped shape my personality.
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Thats it big sis. Its deliberate. When we dont knkw why we should fight, we give in to everything. Am glad you found yours
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This is nice @zizymena
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Thank you so much @advocatemighty
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Thats what most pot belly boss usually do, Oga them at the top trying to use any little opportunity as advantage
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