Just add. If I forced myself on my wife would that be true love or would she be put in a position to do my will because I said so. Same applies with God. My wife would own me if I hurt her in anyway. But because she loves me she allows me to have a relationship with her. Which to be frank makes no sense to me because I am jerk most of the time. But love looks past the flaws. God looks past our flaws. He accepts us as we are and all he desires is our love.