Has anyone asked you to do a really big favor for them lately? It happened to me two weeks ago.
Seriously? Can I keep my four hours and just give you 20 bucks? You can keep the change.
A couple of weeks ago, my uncle Steve called me and asked, "Will you help me..."
I didn't even let him finish the question. I was in. I would help my uncle Steve do anything.
Luckily for me, he didn't finish the request with "get rid of a dead body?"
I probably would have had to do it. Steve is one of the nicest people I have ever met in my life. I know for a fact that if I asked the same question he asked, he too would not even let me finish. He would immediately say "yes"... and probably bring along a twelve pack for good measure. Which is awesome unless your request ends with, "supervise a 3rd grade trip to an Amish village?"
For you young people, this is from Billy Madison. It is a movie made in the very brief period of human history when Adam Sandler was funny.
Steve is an electrician and has helped me with many electrical problems in my home (some of them weren't even caused by me!) He has picked me up from the airport, helped me fix my stairs, and volunteered his son to be the ring bearer in my wedding.
When I was a kid, he took me water skiing with his teenage friends. Actually now that I think about it, Steve is the one who taught me to ride a bike.
And Steve does this for everyone in his life. He is "that guy". He is the one that everyone can count on.
So when Steve needed help moving to a new house, it was no surprise that ten of us dropped everything and showed up to help do the absolute last thing any of us wanted to do. Moving sucks! But it was Steve so we all came.
In most cases I think I'd rather make new friends than help my current ones move.
The first part of the move was simple enough. He rented a huge 26-foot truck. Although we carried an almost endless stream of boxes and furniture to that truck, with ten of us working, we finished incredibly quickly.
But half the truck was still empty. Steve is not a dumb man. He is also very thrifty (oh wait you will see how thrifty very shortly). There is no way he would waste that much space.
I asked, "Did you miscalculate? Is the extra 13 feet for 1000 twelve packs?"
He smiled.
Oh I've got a surprise for you...
Oh crap! I did not like that smile. Most smiles are intended to express joy and happiness. This smile was intended to be a shield. I could practically read my uncle's mind, "If I keep smiling when I say this, it won't sound so bad. In addition, no one would ever punch a smiling guy in the mouth."
Through his Joker-like grin, Steve said, "We need the space for the bricks."
Bricks? What bricks? Whose bricks? Does he think he's one of the freaking three little pigs?
Then he showed us.
He had a pile of about 3000 bricks next to his house. Remember when I said he was thrifty? He had been given these bricks ten years earlier... for free. He had planned on building a patio with them. But then he moved FOUR times. Each time he brought them with him.
This is not the actual pile of bricks... the real one was much larger.
Although he wasn't joking, I decided I should. Well at least half-joke. I chuckled and said, "How about we all take up a collection to buy you some brand new bricks and have them delivered to your new house?"
Even though several members of the group thought this was a brilliant idea, Steve thought this would be a huge waste. After all, he had already invested FOUR days of work into moving them before.
Because it was Steve, and we all owed him favors, we formed a line between the pile of bricks and the truck. One by one we passed the bricks down the line and into the truck. Approximately 90 minutes in, I became convinced that someone was unloading the bricks as fast as we could load them and was running around the other side of the house to secretly add them back into the pile. It was like a cartoon. The pile never seemed to get any smaller!
This is obviously not us. These people are smiling. By the way, check out what buildon.org does. It's pretty cool.
Finally, three and a half hours after we had started loading the pile of irreplaceable bricks, mercifully, we finished.
A couple of hours ago, I returned from the doctor. Apparently, there is a problem with my sciatic nerve. Hmmmmmm I wonder how that happened?!
Oh so that is why it hurts so bad. There is an explosion in my lower back. Yep that is pretty much what it feels like.
Curse you Steve for being so damn nice that no one can say "no" to you!!!!!
My wife helped someone get a job at where she worked and she ended up being my wife's supervisor and turned into a total bit#h. Needless to say my wife has been VERY carefully who she helps out now.
Hopefully karma will settle her account but it astounds me how short the memory of some very ungrateful people is.
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Oh yeah this has been a common one that I had not thought of. Helping Someone get a job is a huge favor. I hope things end up ok for your wife.
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Shit man that sucks.
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What a great article you have written here. Nice pictures as well and it is quite fun to read. Especially the part about the person returning the bricks to the heap made me chuckle. I at one time helped one of my friends to "fix up a car for a bit". Ended up tearing half the engine apart and the amount of issues on it kept going up. About half a day in he just folded though, had the car scrapped in the end haha. Have fun out there and good luck with your future posts!
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Good for him for being able to know when to say when. I bet you wish he had figured that out before starting, but better late than never. Plus now he owes you one!
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Well my cousin got drunk one night and went out cold on our way home at 2am i had to carry him for miles! I ended up spending $300 to get him home because at one point we passed by hospital to check if he will survive the night. He quit alcohol that day.
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You are a good cousin! I think one of mine may have just left me on the road lol.
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Great post, and very funny!
I regret helping a lot of people, even tho I learned a lot from the experiences. When I was younger I helped a guy I considered to be my friend build a website, and everything was okay, until he found a better friend and they both bullied me for years until elementary school was over.
Another thing I regret was helping the friend of one of my ex girlfriends. Her friend apparently gave a picture with her, half naked, to a guy who shared them online, just because he was a jerk.
Since my ex knew the kind of guy I am, and that I do not look at naked girls the way others look at them, she showed me the pics and convinced me to help them report every Facebook page that had them posted. I spent around two or three hours doing that, closing a few Facebook pages with our reports.
A few months later, the exact girl was the one who convinced my ex that it was better to break up with me... awesome!
And lastly, I regret every single time I help my brother repair his computer. I'm okay helping him with anything, even money, but when it comes to his computer, God, I always spend too much time on that damn machine, it's always broken, no matter what I do to it.
Those are only a few things I regret when helping others, there are way more, but I won't write all of them here.
Anyway, great article, really enjoyed it, best of luck! :)
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Thanks. Man it sounds like some bad luck there. But it hasn't stopped you from being nice and that is so important.
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Yeah, I'd rather focus on good things than bad things :)
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When I was 19 and really naive, I was working at a movie theater, and a pregnant girl about my age walked up to the ticket counter and acted like she knew me. I had no idea who she was, but she insisted we knew each other from high school and had been great friends. I figured it must have been one of those classes that wasn't Drama or TV Production, so I didn't remember anyone from them. I took it on her word that we knew each other. I didn't consider until years later she may have just read my name tag and pretended.
Anyway, she was without a ride home for some reason, and asked if I could take her there when I got off work. I didn't see any harm in it, so I said yes. She hung around the theater lobby until I clocked out.
That's when Mr. Toad's Wild Ride began. There were people chasing her. They'd been waiting in the parking lot while she hid out in the lobby, and they followed my car out of the lot. I didn't notice until we were in a relatively deserted part of town after dark.
She had me take her to what looked like a crack house in the worst part of town, but asked me to wait in the car for her, because she just needed to get something from the house. She wasn't staying there. I would have driven away at that point, but a guy I actually knew came out of the house and started talking to me. He was the older brother of a girl I knew, and we'd met before. He said he was doing some kind of "pennance" by being there, and that I should NOT be there.
The girl came back out of the house and got back in my car, directing me where to go, and the car following us began to get right up on my bumper, nearly forcing me off the road a few times. I pulled into a brightly lit gas station, hoping that would offer some safety, but it didn't. The car of followers pulled in behind me so I couldn't back out of the parking space, and then a very angry, large dude got out and started banging on MY driver's side window so hard, I thought he was going to break it.
I was pretty upset at this point, which seemed to confuse the girl, and she asked me why I was acting that way. She got out of the car and told the angry dude he was scaring me, and they argued, which resulted in her eventually getting back in the car. I ended up pulling out sideways to get away from them, because the other car wasn't moving to let me leave.
We went on a wild chase through the town, and I got a little bit ahead of the bad guys. Eventually, the girl said to drop her off at this abandoned gas station, because the angry dude would see her there, and they could have some privacy to talk. But, she wanted me to be sure to come back and pick her up in ten minutes.
I dropped her off and drove away, thinking about what the right thing to do would be. I wasn't sure if I knew her or not, she was pregnant and in a bad situation, but she seemed to be playing me, too. I drove a very circuitous route around town to make sure I was no longer being followed, because the angry dude's friends had dropped him off, too, presumably to pick him up later. I did not want those friends on my tail, and drove all the back streets and weird routes I could think of to make sure they were gone.
When I hadn't seen them for a while, and was relatively confident I wasn't being followed anymore because I lost them, I made my decision.
I went home and locked the door.
Fortunately, I never saw her or her angry friends again, as I was concerned they might come back to the theater. They didn't. THAT is the worst favor I ever did for anyone.
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Yeah that is really bad. What a bizarre situation. It reminds me of soemthing you'd see in a tarrantino movie. So random and weird... but fascinating! I'm glad it ended up ok for you.
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Me, too. It's one of the freakier things that has happened to me, and one of the most potentially dangerous, which is why it sticks out to me so much all these years later. Most people don't have the experience necessary to make the best decisions when they're 19. Now, I'm old enough to know better than to ever put myself in that kind of situation.
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The Dumbest favor I ever done for someone was at work. I suggested I would be the one to take our paranoid schizophrenia patient to the A & E . She was showing a lot of signs of distress and I felt so sorry for her being the kind hearted lady that I am.
I began to regret the decision after 5 hours out in the A& E department though, when she voiced to me she was hearing voices telling her to kill me
:}
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Oh yeah. You win! That one is rough.
What is A & E?
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haha :) brings back awful memories hahaha!!
Accident and Emergency
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Wife talked me into letting her friend and 3 girls move into our place "to get out of a bad situation". 8 weeks later their bad situation is now our bad situation. FML
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Oooo 8 weeks. Wow. Good luck man.
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This is brilliant! We always have those nice people that we just can't refuse. One of my nice acts was helping my friend study for a test. She asked if I could help tutor her, and being the nice person I am, I said yes. Low and behold, 5 hours had passed, it was nighttime, and she was still as confused as when we started. The moral of the story? If you don't know something 100%, don't teach it lol
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Lol! Uh oh I should have thought of that before becoming a teacher. You sound like a good friend!
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So a friend from High School got out of jail after three years for stealing a car. He came from a poor family and had a rough life. I felt bad for the guy. After he got out, he said he cleaned up his life and wanted to hang out. I told him I was going to a party and he wanted to come. I invited him. We get to the party and we are having a good time until he comes up to me and says we should go. I was trying to mack on this pretty thing, and didn't want to leave but he was persistent. I told the girl, who lived at the house, that I had to go, and she was kinda upset, I had a good night ahead of me. I say fine, and walk to the car and we get in. As I pull out two police cars pull up and block us in. It turns out he stole a bunch of jewelry from the party and the police wanted to arrest me and him. The cops finally realized I had no clue and he took all the blame. The worst part is, the girl who I was trying to get with, it was her jewelry and she never wanted to talk to me again.
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Great story! Even better gif! I mean really good one. Did you ever talk to the guy again?
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Thanks!!! I texted him about a six months ago and we talked a little to see how things were going. He has some kids now and a steady job, so he's doing OK. He was always a good dude, just in a bad situation. He also helped me out when we were real young so I always kinda looked out for him after that.
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You sound like a really good friend. With an excellent taste in gifs...
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Thanks! I really appreciate it. I do what I can. You picked up a new follower!
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I offered to edit a relative's book. It was a great story -- but the draft was 400,000 words! Way more of a time commitment than I expected.
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Wow! 400,000 words. I think I wrote a post about the ewok movies about that long. ;)
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Haahaha I have a hard time saying no to anyone that needs help...so I've done quite a few odd jobs that I typically would've never done.
Sciatica is the worst. It's irritating by twisting and reaching, which it sounds like that's what you were doing, unfortunately.
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I know you are one of those nice guys I see on tv. Yeah I'm an idiot. I need to remember my body is old... even if I pretend not to be.
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Hahaha Whatever. Not even close!
You're not that old!
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Love love love your post...but Adam Sandler is still funny...👿
I think I help people who are finanically struggling when I myself can hurting. Although I think it's stupid to do, my husband is a magnet for sob stories. Then he tells me then I feel bad. But I can't not pay my bills to help you from getting evicted for example.
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Yeah. You have to take care wolf yourself before yo I can take care of others.
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Mine would have to be a day about 5 years ago when a coworker was desperate for someone to pee in a condom so she could use it to pass a drug test at work. Somehow this led to us dating, then being engaged, then her drug use escalating from weed to prescription pills. This led to her become abusive in many ways towards myself and her child. Ultimately led to me leaving after dealing with it for 2 years. If I'd never peed in that condom I wouldn't have been in that terrible situation. I guess it was to teach me a lesson lol
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Wow! That is a lifetime movie right there. Seriously I hope you and the child are ok.
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What? USD16.25 I spend numbers of hours and use up all my IQ. Only get 16.25. What the fun?! Just take a look of this,gentleman.
Hey! Checkout blog post on Steem https://steemit.com/introducemyself/@zack813/hello-nice-to-meet-you-2017619t13221810z
I use a lot of energy on this article.
Why?
Only 16.25?
(Just kidding! I just want you to know about me. Hello! I'm Zack from Hong Kong. Nice to meet you and have a nice day😁)
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Last week a pal asked if I would take his turn in the barrel. I don't know what that means but I said yes. I'll let you know how it goes.
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Oh God, No!
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Do I hear lawsuit in the works?.....1-800-lawyer lol
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LOL. I don't know if I could admit in a court of law what an idiot I was. I could have stopped at any point. But he's just so nice! I hate him... of being so nice.
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Well on a positive note it was a good work out:)
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Thank you for this story, it gave me a chuckle. Although I seriously hope that your back will feel better soon. The idea behind your post is great though, and you told the story in a fun way :-)
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Thanks! I think I'll be fine. Some exercises and some rest should help... I hope.
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We need a pic Steve smiling.
My story. Two months ago I volunteered for my churches vacation bible school. I normally cook for our kids Wednesday night services. I asked that I don't have to cook for VBS. I was promised someone else was doing it. Well like a smile from Steve the preachers wife said "Good news your cooking for VBS". After a week of cooking I backed out of church camp and am taking a break.
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Dang I wish they honored your one request. yeah that smile... never good.
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Such is life.
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I offered to help a neighbor assemble a trampoline for their kid. Everything was going fine up until the last couple of springs which needed fitting between the canvas and the frame. The tension was so strong I could barely get the springs into the holes, so I pulled as hard as I could, lost my footing and fell backwards against their garden wall. I cut my arm, bashed the side of my head and bust my $200 watch! Votes gratefully received to help buy a new one! :)
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Oh man that's rough! This kids better play on that trampoline every day.
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I KNOW for sure I have a lifetime of these because I have written a figurative "NO!" in black marker on my forehead & an "!" in black marker on my bank card for the past decade. I can't recall any of them right now, which is probably why my list was SO long that I needed the black marker pen!
I can't BELIEVE I can't remember them right now!
Well, they do say "Let it go!". I must have let it go. ;-)
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Lol. Sounds like you have a great strategy!
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To answer your question, none, I only give favors to the people I love, if they might be stupid, dumb or even bad for myself in some type of way and I know it will help them. I'm good with that thought
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That sounds very nice.
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nice story. hope your back is good again.
of all the favors i've done i clearly remeber the one that changed everything i knew.
i've agreed to drive the gf, of at the time my very good friend, home a few blocks away from where he was living. i was headed to another city 100 miles away but it was on my way. so in the car the girl says that she wants to go to the other city (she has a flat there). i've agreed and 10 min later the guy calls me and asks me if she's home. she's nodding from the passenger sit but i can't lie to him so i tell the truth that we're headed to this other city. he's pissed. really pissed.
we arrived at her flat (she's telling the story of how crazy my friend is so i listened) a few minutes later the doorbell rings. and rings. she goes to the door. oh my she was frightened. he took a taxi to chase us. he was screaming in the street. i've opened the door couse wtf... he's still my friend. he pushes me and goes for the kitchen. grabs a knife. goes for the girl and grabs her by the hair. slams her head on the table. threatens us. i couldn't move a finger. couldn't believe that was the man i knew. jealous as f***
after that i took some self defence classes, severed the bond with this guy and became a little bit more attentive of the people that surround me.
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Wow. That is crazy. I hope the girl and you are ok.
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There were multiple instances in my college years where friends asked me to drive them home. I said yes without asking the destination. The longest drive I had was to Phoenix, Az. I was at Santa Monica, CA.
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Wow! You are a good friend!
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Ahaha. I just didn't want to live her high and dry.
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A kind of favour, with a twist at the end: two years ago, a friend of my gf had to store some books somewhere and my gf agreed to have it at our flat, though it was small. She didn't say there were HUNDREDS of books of course and it took ALL our shelves. Anyway... Time passes... No sign she wants them back.... Time passes... I break up with my gf... Still no sign of the friend wanting to get them back... Time passes... I eventually moved from the flat, last month and at last, she decides to get her books back. but of course she is not available so, I put all the books in boxes and leave them near the door where she can find them... When i come back from work, 75% of the books are gone and 25% are just lying there :-/ Wtf? She just abandoned these at my door? So, I take them out, near the garbage, where everyone can have them in the street... Two hours later, the girl is back and wants to know where are the rest of her books (the first 75% she had donated to a library) because these were her favourite books! I went to the street with her: most of the books had been taken away already by passerbys, and even if she was pissed off I could barely repress a smile, not feeling particularly sorry for her, who suddenly, after 2 years, realize that these are her favourite books and desperately want them back.
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Yeah I think you did all you could. You were MORE than reasonable. She just ended up donating a few more.
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The most regrettable favor I have ever done for someone (a friend) was lending them my car.. lol big mistake!
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Hmmm.. what happened?
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She brought it back to me with a dent in the back of it.
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Ah that is not cool.
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I once offered some constructive suggestions for a steemit post that had real potential aside from a few glaring errors that could be easily fixed. Since the person was planning it as a series I thought I'd just give a heads-up as I would appreciate the same.
Boy, was I wrong. This person kept messaging me until I was vexed. He was very defensive and resentful. Even when I reassured him his content was excellent, it wasn't enough to calm him down.
Eventually, he lost interest when his second post came out. I noticed someone making a similar comment on that one....
Yeah, the beat goes on LOL!!
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You weren't supposed to tell anyone about our private conversations! ;) LOL
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:)
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This had me rolling!!!
I really can't remember any favors right now. I'll try when I get over this laughter 😂
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Thanks! It was funnier writing about it than experiencing it. I'm convinced there was like some cartoon villain with a curly mustache tenting his fingers and laughing the most evil laugh ever.
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"In most cases I think I'd rather make new friends than help my current ones move." That one made me laugh. The one that comes to my mind is lending a friend money. My parents told me not to, but I did anyway. Surprise, my parents were right, who knew.
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Every once and a while parents get it right... but don't tell them... ever! LOL
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Ha-ha. You sound funny, but the situation is not so great. Once I had to get a friend from the airport at 2 pm and drove him 2 hours to his home, then came back the same morning. Got back home at 5 in the morning, while at 8 I had to be at a client. I felt the entire day like I had a hangover. :D
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Hey welcome back! I am so happy you swung by. This place needs your positivity and energy.
Feeling like you have a hangover... without any of the fun of getting one is the WORST! You are a good friend.
Chat is down right now, but I'd love to chat soon.
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Thank you!! Every time I come back you welcome me so nicely. :D I feel like a wandering daughter coming back home, ha-ha.
Btw, I had a hungover on my honeymoon. I usually don't, because I'm a good drinker. :D I tried to get in touch with you on rocket chat.... and later saw that on desktop it doesn't work. On mobile seems to work.
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Brought my friends over to his girlfriend's house when his car broke down.
He decided to break up with her. She threw her Uggs at my window.
Good times...sike
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Ooooh that is a good one. That is really awkward. You are a good friend. Who got to keep the boots?
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The sidewalk xD
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Yeah, sometimes these types of things happen. One time given money to one of my close friend, from that day he is not even answering up my phone ..
It happens, but we should not stop, ourself from helping in contrast of these type of situation.... :)
Upvoted aand following you.
Would you mind taking a look at some of my clicks ...
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Yeah sometimes yo I just have to take a chance and have faith that a friend will act like a friend.
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Wow, what would your uncle have done without you? That's crazy!
One of the dumbest things I agreed to do was when I was working at Little Caesars at 16. The assistant manager called me the morning I was supposed to open with her and told me that she was in a car wreck and couldn't come in. She asked if I could open by myself. So I agreed. I didn't remember until I got there and unlocked the door that it was delivery day. So, in addition to rolling out the pizza dough, making pizza sauce, making pizzas, answering the phone and making orders for customers, I was putting away the heavy cheese boxes all by myself. It was a crazy morning. Lol.
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Yeah you definitely got more than you bargained for. I hope she was super nice to you after that!
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Oh, she was. And the owner gave me a whopping $20 bonus for doing it. Lol!
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Woah...brick moving.
Yup, I would have Craglisted those things.
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Seriously! He could have made money.
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Anytime I've ever offered to fix anyone's computer. It's a great way to sign yourself up as free tech support for life! I stopped talking about computers around co-workers for this reason.
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Oh man. I can only imagine. And it is so easy to just call or text you.
By the way i have this problem with my compute... kidding.
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I help people when I can and enjoy doing it, but there is one lesson that I have learned over the years. "No good deed will go unpunished."
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LOL.
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While friend was out of town, I had the keys to his apartment, and got this text:
Now although this sounds a bit strange , I decided what the hell, its on my way home anyway so I'll stop by...
Little did I know, he had slept with his neighbors wife! They had taken a shower after and she had left the hairdryer at his house LMAO
thankfully I did get out with my life because I did not know that information, while returning the item to his neighbor (not the wife!) I rather not go into the next hour of my life explaining myself and defending off and very angry husband being held back by a screaming wife...
dumbest favor ever? yup. Why I usually don't even bother doing someone a favor unless it is iron glad straight forward.
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Wow!!!! that is the plot of a sitcom right there for sure. That is an awesome story! I think I would tell that one at every party I ever went to. Thank you so much fro sharing that one.
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Thanks! Yeah I actually don't tell it as much as I should. I walked right into the situation to tell you the truth. How could I not think something was up when it involves a neighbors wife haha. I can't be the only one to make that mistake , because Im sure he's not the only one ever to do that :P
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I'm a Spanish teacher and said I would translate for a conference. It was the longest (almost 90 minutes) and most awkward (the parent has utter disdain for the teacher) conference I've ever been a part of.
Next day's lunch was definitely on my colleague.
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I am a special education teacher. I often need a translator at my meetings. It's great when everyone is happy... you are a good person for helping out!
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Thanks @hanshotfirst - glad to meet another teacher on here!
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Recommended a friend to my boss.
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Short and sweet... and leaves a lot to the imagination. I bet that would make an interesting post.
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Thanks for the idea. I did it twice, two different friends, there will not be a third time!!!
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Yep. I have that one too. :-(
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Stole your top meme there. I'm a sucker chauffeur extraordinaire, in fact just drove my sister to the airport last friday during rush hour, turned a 45 minute trip into two and a half. Favours, they are great till they are expected of you.
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Exactly! I love when people do me favors lol.
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I like the way you write, you make sure the reader is hooked!
As far as I go, the most recent stupid thing I've done for someone was when a guy from Armenia, who I had met a few months earlier in an Erasmus+ project, asked me to help him out as he was going to do another project in Italy, my country. As I had (I underline the had) a good relationship with most of the people I met in that project I found him all the bus timetables (the project was in a small village in the Northeast, the kind of stuff that you need to know the language to figure out how to get there), looked up info just to help him and even offered to host him, as 3 other people from that project did the same for me.
Not only did he never thank me and he would write to me only looking for information... he actually came to Milan, which is 1 hour away from where I live, and did not warn me at all! Not only that, another guy from that project was in Milan and didn't tell me! But, I partly forgive the second guy as he was with his wife and small child. The worst was when these two guys took a picture together. It sucks to be considered the reunion maker yet, when people come to your town, nobody hits you up.
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Thanks!
Yeah that sucks. It was not a classy move on his part at all.
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bigger pile of bricks ... come on that is a BIG one ....
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LOL. Yeah I have been known to exaggerate a tiny bit.
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LOL! Sorry this post made me laugh. I can't remember any dumb favors like that from my friends just yet. But i would just say no if its going to hurt my body at the end of the day!
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Yeah I'm dumb. I figured if i could do it when I was young, why not now? I'll tell you why... I'm old lol!
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I remember moving brick when I moved mom from the old house to a ranch house. We HAD to save every last brick. Granted we did not have as many as you had BUT... I think it is the culture. Some folks are thrifty because they went without as children and then they go the other extreme and hoard. The old timers knew the value of a dime or dollar and did not waste it. I get it completely. You particularly see this with senior citizens who went through the great depression in America. Steve sound like a cool guy. Thanks I upvoted. - Troy
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Oh yeah I forget to mention it is in our blood. My whole family is like this. I keep some useless stuff... but mine is much lighter.
He is a good guy. Thanks for the compliment.
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First of all, poor you :P next time ask beforehand the details! Now as far as it concerns me i can say i am pretty lucky in this field. I only do favor to my close friends and they are few or my close relatives and the reason is simple, i trust them. Then as i said to you too i ask about the details and if it's something i can and want i agree. The bad things that have happend is when i try to help other friends and it results in undervaluing the things i did for them like go in a place they are bored to go by themselves or help them with simple things in their life-work but in general i don't do ''big favors'' to anyone who is close to me
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Yeah the lack of appreciation can be really annoying. But in my case that wasn't a problem.
It sounds like you are a good friend.
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Giving friends rides...to places they shouldn't be.
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I can only imagine lol
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Okay, so with the new voting, which seems really great on the one hand, but keeps annihilating my power on the other, I tried to resist reading this. I was going to put it in my browser for tomorrow when my vp had strengthened a bit. But the title was just too damn alluring, and now after laughing my ass off at the extremely well portrayed and vivid scene I'm glad I didn't pass it up since it might have slipped by.
Hee hee, I really keep getting hit sideways with the image of someone sneaking the bricks back onto the pile...three and a half hours???? Hahaha!! Actually the only comparable story I have took place when I was a kid--and I was Uncle Steve in the situation! If you saw my post about my childhood fort, then you saw the massive dirt landslide inside of it, which I, on a couple different occasions, convinced some cousins and friends to help me dig out. Err, attempt to dig out. Did not work so well, it was the mountain in the distance that definitely did not grow any closer.
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That is hilarious! Did you use the Tow Sawyer method and convince them digging the dirt out was fun?
Thanks for the kind words!
The voting is kicking my butt too. We will figure it out... right before the next hard fork!
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Haha, yesss! I totally took a page from Tom!
You're most welcome, you're one of my favorite bloggers hands down ;)
Right? We'll finally have the perfect method and it will all change!
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Recently, I was making my usual weekend rounds cutting grass for my mother-in-law and wife's uncle. We all live within a quarter of a mile of each other. They are unable to do it nor can they afford to hire someone so I do it. Each yard is about an acre and takes about a hour to cut. I was finishing up at my wife's uncles house when I noticed the back window on his pick-up truck was shattered. Guess how it happened? Fortunately, I will only have to pay the $200 deductible.
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Oh man. You are a good guy for paying.
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...in the very brief period of human history when Adam Sandler was funny.
Somehow, unlike many of my peers, I seem to have totally missed this period of time despite apparently living through it. When commenting on this in the past, I've been told "they're all gonna laugh at you" in what I would describe as a nonsensical manner. Shrug.
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It was a very brief period. You should be proud that you were too busy to recognize it.
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Your uncle sounds like my uncle. After my great grandmother passed away, when we were cleaning up her house to sell, my uncle took a huge stack of bricks from her yard. He's a hoarder. As a kid we lived with my uncle for 4 years and he made me move those F-in bricks five times around his yard by hand by myself. They were always in the way which is why he kept making me move them. He never did anything with them and 15 years later he still has them in the last place I moved them. lol
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I feel your pain! They need to just let them go!
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Lol I can't remember when
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good post my friend ^_^
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Thanks!
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your welcome @hanshotfirst
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Congratulations @hanshotfirst
You took 66 place in my Top 100 of posts
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thank you for sharing
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This is great content , and pictures make it even better .
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That's a nice sharing and worth my 100% upvote (tho it doesn't help much tho lol), steem on!
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Thanks!
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Good old Billy Madison! It is hard to decide what is worse: his career now or your date with those bricks!
As for me, I once took care of my mom's friend's mad dog. The worst decision ever! It came to the point when the dog barked me out of my bed and made me sleep on the couch... That is hilarious now, but at the time I was pretty pissed off.
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OMG I don't even have a reply.
Shit, there goes the rest of my day reading your previous posts.
Goddamned Steemit, I'll never get any work done around here.
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Great post..good work @hanshotfirst .upvote and resteemed. Greets from Germany
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Oral sex.I was once asked to paint a room as a "favor". Three days later and with two sets of clothing forever stained, she began to complain about my painting skills.Never again.
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hahahahahaha
what kind of asshole friend brings 3000 bricks as a gift lolol
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Our friend asked if they could stay downstairs in our guest apartment temporarily. They stayed 2 years. I know..I know....how the hell did we let that happen?
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Mamamia oh my goodness I'm feeling ya here on this one! And its also making me reconsider the favors that I ask of my friends!
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No good deed goes unpunished.
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