Many people struggle with the challenging issue of how to turn a rejection wound into a chance to fill an emotional void. In this article, we'll look at various strategies for using this hurt as a chance to feel better emotionally and regain our self-confidence.
Rejection's wound causes ripple effects in your life. You are trapped in this inner emptiness from childhood until adulthood, which is symbolised by the rejection wound and is constantly expressed in your fears, tears, shortcomings, and discomfort. All of your challenging interactions stem from the negative effects of that hidden emotional scar from your past.
You develop while maintaining a deep gash inside of you that often makes you sad because it makes you feel disconnected from the outside world. Making yourself understood is a persistent challenge, and it is the clear mark of this scar that defines you and keeps you from fully deploying yourself, as if you were being stopped by this unconsciously present inner barrier.
You frequently experience feelings of isolation, abandonment, and rejection as if you have no chance of winning the love or acceptance of others. You then go on to explain this by citing your alleged flaws as a representation of this rejection. You compile a list of all your shortcomings, from your physical appearance to your personality to your taste, that pertain to your eyes.
You draw the conclusion that's where your sense of rejection originates. Despite your best efforts to win people over, you notice that you are gradually evolving and renewing yourself. You constantly remain outside of the life that revolves around you but avoids you in its greatest joys and moments of happiness. wholly why?
You suffer from it, you don't really understand why, and you feel bad about not being able to build satisfying relationships because of the constant rejection you experience.
You aimlessly wander and frequently feel depressed, unhappy, and self-conscious. You are so tense that it makes you difficult to live with. As a result, as you become locked in the heavy and grey fear of never succeeding in existing for what you are, you harden, you close, you deny yourself the right to be light and enthusiastic, and you become almost intolerant, almost insensitive, and almost indifferent.
You encounter the same unresolved blind spots along the way and over time, despite the arguments, concessions, and efforts to find a solution leading to a better future. You feel imprisoned by this sense of miscommunication. And it is this deceptive filter that continually sends you back as a delusion of reality.