oday's lesson from Mencius conveyed that a wise person knows how to distinguish the right time, place, and people. This implies the importance of choosing when to speak or stay silent, a lesson applicable to the modern concept of discretion.
Furthermore, Mencius emphasized the humility based on not excessively revealing one's talents. It conveyed the idea that wisdom and talent, when not flaunted, are more respectable than self-promotion or boasting.
The advice to open one's heart with a humble attitude implies respect for others, suggesting that mutual respect is reciprocal. The notion of emptying oneself to accommodate others resonates with the idea that creating space for others requires selflessness.
Mencius cautioned against engaging in meaningless debates that trample upon the other's dignity. Winning an argument often results in little gain, while losing only damages one's pride. Particularly, the advice not to argue with small-minded individuals, as they tend to exploit weaknesses persistently, felt relevant in the current political context.
Mencius stressed the need for skills to confront and avoid conflicts, but more importantly, becoming a person of integrity. The realization that one might be perceived as small-minded by someone else adds depth to this reflection.
Lastly, Mencius suggested avoiding those who only say pleasing words and surrounding oneself with those who sincerely give constructive criticism. While it sounds simple, the reality is that distinguishing between the two is challenging.
Today's reflection on Mencius may seem lighthearted, but it turned out to be a meaningful moment. I hope at least a phrase from these precious words lingers within me.
Thank you.