Like me, you undoubtedly want to achieve success in all facets of your life and leave behind admirable accomplishments. Success is a fact and is influenced by a number of factors; it is not random. I discovered a few of these factors to be the most important, which I will share with you in this article.
Success and failure in life, according to someone, are predictable because they are the outcomes of our decisions. And I would assert that these decisions primarily contribute to creating or destroying the main pillar that determines how life will turn out: PERSONAL VALUE.
In fact, when you don't know your worth, you often trivialise yourself, feel unimportant and deprived, and spend your time talking about others, feeling envious of them, or even worse, being jealous of them.
If there is one fact that explains personal value the best, it is what we develop into.
The various happy or unfortunate occurrences in life, as well as the favourable or desert seasons, constantly pressure us to make decisions that, in reality, are only a reflection of who we have evolved into along the way:
Thomas EDISON, a fool acknowledged by the educational system of his time, became one of the most creative minds of the story through the obstacles, difficulties, and failures that contributed to working first with him on "Le Devenir" after Nelson MANDELA spent 27 years in prison and instead of hatred and retribution chose love and mercy because of what he had become.
These examples serve only to demonstrate that life's events and seasons take place so that you become more seasoned and less bitter.
I frequently hear my coaching clients say: "I haven't accomplished anything in my life" during our sessions. And I frequently ask, "Are you sure? Because everyone has done something successful at least once, despite known setbacks.
Just that daily frustrations and disappointments tend to cloud your judgement as you race to succeed. As a result, you feel as though you have never accomplished anything, which is a true illusion.
Take a moment to reflect on your journey; "Le Faire" must have at least one redeeming quality.
I'll wrap up this second axis with the following advice from my mentor:
You can achieve feats if you have previously been able to do this even a single time, even if it seems insignificant to you.
Many people also tell me that they have only experienced pain, divorce, betrayal, disrespect, rejection, and a host of other horrifying evils in their lives.
Do you realise that the lessons gleaned from each of these various outcomes now serve as potential remedies to a number of issues? Actually, someone has used your traumatic misadventure as a landmark.
Simply realise through these three things that your life is not a failure and that your efforts have not been in vain. Instead, your personal worth has multiplied tenfold, enabling you to now approach every endeavour in your life with greater resources, tact, and endurance: what you become in life is far more significant than what you receive.