Is conflict resolution supposed to use peaceful methods?

People may unwittingly communicate in ways that strain relationships. Some of these behaviours may resonate with you.

managing

The assertion may be false.

positive feedback

Feeling guilty

possible issue

I respectfully disagree.

Physical aggressiveness is the issue.

Consider a situation where parents assume their son is using drugs and financing it with certain activities. They may protest this discovery by raising their voices. They may give incentives to stop his behaviour or voice concerns about his finances.

They may also restrict his evening activities or deny drug use, using emotive methods like questioning how he caused them anguish to make him feel guilty. We have varied sleep schedules and often consider your confinement. Is this the right way to thank us for our help? Could you consider others' feelings? What did we do to deserve a son like you?

Some parents prefer to overlook situations. They could diminish the situation by arguing that it's not really troubling and that adolescents have these experiences. They hope their son will decide for himself, so they don't discuss it with him.

In my experience, my response had unanticipated bad effects on myself and others. Despite bank promises, I had trouble getting a loan. Initial consideration led me to express worries about the banking system and agent. After being hopeful, my expectations were not reached, which frustrated and disappointed me.

Additional obstacles arose until I realised that embracing and acknowledging the current situation was the only way to resolve it.

I have seen workshop participants display violence and fury during a separation or divorce. Their disagreements prevented a solution. A woman reportedly had financial problems after consenting to her husband's terms.

He was wealthy, but he wanted to give her little. She persisted in court until she got the right result. After attending a session on responsibility, she decided to let her husband decide their divorce details rather than argue.

A few months later, when I saw her again, she excitedly told me that her husband had generously given her twice the amount she wanted. He added a property to the arrangement to boost his finances. He thanked her for her help during their relationship. Attachment release can be positive.

Please note that letting go does not mean passivity or surrender. Instead, it means remembering your desires, articulating them when necessary, and accepting that you cannot control everything.

It's important to be unattached from results and feel good even when they don't come, knowing that the Universe always watches after for us. Sometimes our desired outcome takes a different form. While it may not match our initial request, the outcome meets our needs.

One way to move on is to accept personal responsibility, which means that people can influence their life and must accept the results.

Parents should emphasise accountability when discussing a teen who uses drugs. Open and helpful dialogues with the teen about their feelings and methods to address their actions can achieve this. It would help if they worked together to outline all possible outcomes.

It is crucial that their son feels unconditionally loved regardless of his decisions. Parents may be disappointed, but they should also cherish their son. By setting an example, parents may teach their children responsibility, one of the most important lessons.

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