As per the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, the happy people are those who say that other people are honest, likeable, and reliable. On the other hand, peer reviewers are often rude, demanding, self-centered, and unpleasant.
A study found that people who say nice things about other people are less depressed and anxious. On the other hand, people who are too critical are more likely to develop psychological disorders, paranoia, and problems integrating with others. People with paranoid personality disorders are suspicious and don't trust others.
In fact, they see more bad in other people. This means that people with this illness see all messages, even ones that aren't mean, as insults, sarcasm, or other negative things. When someone is paranoid, they choose the worst choice, which is to attack directly.
Someone criticises everything and everyone, even if they don't have a personality problem. At each of our events, someone thinks the world is full of bad people. This study says that this idea probably doesn't make anyone happy, whether it's fair or not.
We see traits in other people that we have ourselves, so what we see on the outside shows what we think. Because of the mirror effect, when we don't like something about someone and feel rejected because of it, it might be a trait of their personality. So, rejection shows that you reject yourself.
Because projection helps our unconscious, it might tell us that the trouble only lies with this other person. Psychological projection is when someone blames other people for their feelings, thoughts, and urges while rejecting their own because they are unpleasant.
This mechanism is used when there is emotional strife or a threat from inside or outside the body. We put these traits onto others to make ourselves feel better because we don't accept them about ourselves. Our minds tell us that we're blocking these dangerous things and fighting them in real life.
What bothers us about other people is partly our own reflection!
In the end, our inner world affects how we feel and shows what kinds of people we are. So, when we are happy, we see the world with hope and energy. Because we need to remember every day that what we think affects how we feel and what we say.
All of this is something we do often! We have power over our ideas and how we see ourselves and other people. That can be done with a number of tools. Are you ready for the challenge?