Always, we progress. Where we choose to be the protagonist and not the victim, shaking up our life to construct our own reality with courage and bravery, excluding humiliations, blackmail, and offences.
The word “victim” is often derogatory. Some describe this personality as a passive person who blames others for their problems or their own. However, “victimism” is unrelated to “real victims”. We must respectfully and sensitively distinguish these two opposing features.
Most of us have been victims of someone or something. Public but especially private settings have injustices. We can be respectful, children, high-status, or have a rucksack full of experiences.
Life strikes when it wants. We will sometimes be victims of dishonesty, accident, hypocrisy, a bad relationship, our own mistakes, or a gloomy cloud. hearts.
Destiny holds these threads that we cannot always control. However, we can choose the best response to leave the victim and become our own hero or heroine.
A victim does not always choose his place or escape this psychological cage by will. We provide an example to illustrate. Elena, an 18-year-old fictional character, wants to study law in Budapest, Romania. She understands it will be hard owing to economic and familial issues. This complicated scenario inspires her to take a job.
An ad says we need Spanish domestic help. Her salary is decent, and if she saves enough, she can start school later. She acts without hesitation. Despite everything, this daring decision became his worst a few days later.
She joins the exploited. Her only option in Spain is to prostitute herself to pay for the trip. Thus, she will lament her small goals and unjust realities as much as the country of arrival.
Elena remains a victim after a social organisation takes her life. Her motive is simple: she has created a new “me” to identify with. It has lost all confidence, feels guilty for everything that has transpired, and thinks it has no control over anything.
Her conditioning prevents her from seeing forward. He was consumed by victimhood. Nevertheless, Elena can “rebuild” herself. She wants to be what.
This story is only one of many daily realities men and women face. This form of personal reconstructive wound does not always heal, according to mediators and specialists. As they discover meaning, victims may reintegrate their “separate self” into their identities. An option, meaning.
“Be whatever you want. You can be anyone you want, they're taught. However, you must first overcome your victimhood to become a hero or heroine. Break conditioning and aim to be happy again.
Each person's circumstances put them in this vulnerable position. We should not guilt her or say “she was looking for it when she started this relationship” or “things like this always happen to you because you have no character.”
A victim does not choose to be a victim because they are attempting to escape an external source of pain and their self-esteem is in ruins.
Hurt people cannot recover overnight. One must restore confidence to reconstruct one's identity, which is long, heartbreaking, and delicate. Confidence in yourself and others.