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We need balance and happiness to establish a healthy connection. Instead of a completer, we should seek a complement.

Bad company is undoubtedly familiar to you. Selfish individuals exist. They are dishonest and put their own interests before others'. This can damage our personality.

Not all social and emotional relationships are as expected.

We shouldn't lose confidence after a terrible experience. Some people are noble and honest, so we must keep trusting in them.

However, loneliness is one of the worst feelings. Despite being with a loved one.


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Some prefer solitude to terrible company in this situation. Please consider this question.

We must admit that poor relationships are not always caused by terrible company or selfishness.

Some can't love. They don't get sharing. Taking care of your partner and group requires daily attention to detail.

Some persons have severe emotional intelligence deficits. Despite loving their partner, they can only bring them misery and loneliness.
Sometimes we think our partner is bad company. But sometimes he lacks emotional maturity. Which also makes me unhappy.

Bad company hurts.

Many people cannot commit to a relationship. They solely defend their own interests, like:

Want company, even if it's someone they don't like.
Form a business or social relationship.

Enter a relationship to feel loved, cared for, and cared for without giving back.
Living in a permanent imbalance, where only one party invests, cares, and pays attention to the other, leads to relationship failure.

In this instance, acting quickly is best. Staying in unnecessary pain is not advised.

If we know the situation won't improve and the other person won't change their attitude, we must gently withdraw to avoid suffering.

Solitude is always better than someone who makes you more vulnerable, lowers your self-esteem, and upsets your balance.

Many have an intractable phobia of being alone. Often, this is because society views loneliness as a failure.

Singleness does not mean failure. It's not necessary to be happy or to have a socially accepted companion. This must be fully explained.

If we are unhappy alone, we are unlikely to be satisfied in a partnership.
Solitude is a balanced state that helps us evolve. We can reorganise, mature, and attain some of our desires and goals.

Don't fear loneliness. Beware of suffering with a person who claims to love you yet hurts you.

Tell yourself that the most important thing in life is to feel good about ourselves and to be happy enough to feel alive, alone or with a partner.

Don't let others dictate your life. Nobody can tell you how to be happy. To live means to choose freely, accept mistakes, and start new endeavours.
Don't let others decide your happiness. Create a real partnership and build your relationship on two people.

If you think your life depends on others' choices, decisions, and views, act. You will eventually feel frustrated and uncomfortable.

Life is too short to live someone else's dreams and lose our passions.


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