The only way to recover control and govern your life is to know your value and prioritise your own decisions.
Your heart and mind must always agree. Loving someone and having to let them go to reclaim control is hard. When you don't want to leave.
While thinking on this topic, your life may have been dominated by nighttime ideas that keep you awake.
This often happens when love becomes a narcotic. That you don't realise you don't deserve this treatment.
When a relationship no longer benefits you.
You should reclaim control of a relationship if you're giving everything to the person you love without receiving anything in return.
The first step is to value oneself.
Asking oneself why you deserve particular therapies is pointless. You may feel guilty after violent circumstances. Or that someone does everything to make you feel bad.
You'll have fought for your spouse in front of friends and relatives. You believed you could alter him.
You probably excused his behaviour honestly. It felt like all his days were horrible, but you blamed them on "having a bad day". Love kept you by his side through everything.
Maybe you didn't mind your pals telling you what you already knew but didn't want to admit: you deserve better.
Your mind tried to prevent pain and misery, but it was merely delaying the inevitable.
It's okay if you imagined you'd be the perfect relationship or together forever.
However, you eventually realise that unrequited love is pointless.
It's acceptable to feel nostalgic after discovering the truth and regaining control.
They are usually caused by memories of former times with that individual, whether you like it or not.
Most importantly, quit feeling guilty about what you did or think you did wrong. Your regrets may not be that horrible.
Taking Charge Means Turning Pages
You must realise that your and your spouse's goals alter with age. If this goes in various ways, the relationship usually ends.
Do not be angry—it is not a failing of either party. Maybe you thought you had love, but neither of you knew.
Memories are unsettling yet aren't permanent. You decide whether to prioritise the good above the bad.
Reclaiming your life doesn't mean forgetting your loved one.
Years later, your mind may retain some memories. Being absent isn't entirely horrible.
Instead, it will show you that it was the wisest choice.
To avoid harmful effects from these recollections, you must move on well.
Some folks require time. Others need counselling or a departure ritual. Do what suits you.
Taking charge of my life involves responsibility.
We promise that once you realise the necessity of taking back control of all parts of your life, you will not blame others.
Clarity opens up a universe of opportunities.
Reclaim your life. Before others, value yourself. Allow yourself to shine.