"The fear of failing again" might take over our lives if we fail a lot.
We avoid failure and move away from our plans, ideas, and goals because of this stress.
We are "unhappy" and "frustrated" when things go wrong or annoy us. Why do all that work? Why start over if I'm going to fail again?
We stay, get stuck, and give up when we feel this way. If we want to be better and not fail when life gets hard, we have to work hard at it.
Life and other people often remind us of the mistakes we've made. Why don't they let us move on?
We react with sadness, anger, and frustration.
Want to hide your sadness forever and get stronger? Emotional wounds leave marks when they don't get better.
A lot of the time, you just accepted it, even if you thought you had.
No matter what, you tried to forget, hide, cover, and not think about it. Emotional pain is like a wound that won't heal if it's not handled.
It could get sick inside before it closes and heals.
Any accident will hurt us and make us more sensitive, which means the injury wasn't handled properly.
Getting angry helps us forget about pain. If we fail and get angry, we might not go through that pain again. People have tried to help us but failed.
But this doesn't always happen. Think about situations or efforts we failed at but didn't suffer for. What makes them different?
When we fail at something but know we can try something else, we don't feel bad or angry.
If we admit that it was impossible, we learn from our mistake, feel bad about failing, but are not punished.
To meet our goals and stay motivated, we keep trying new things.
When we're unhappy, we believe there is only one way to get what we want.
This leads to worry: "I have failed," "I will never succeed," and "I have to accept that my life will be short." Refusing to start a new project will keep it from failing again.
There are many ways to go. We'll think about all the different ways we can reach our goals and achieve our dreams when we fail. No one is by themselves.
A failure will only be one road we look into; we will find many more.
This means that fear won't come, and we'll keep fighting for our goals and looking at things from different points of view.
As long as we keep working towards our goals and make progress with each step, we'll be proud of ourselves even if we fail.
We end up somewhere unexpected, and sometimes it's even better than our plans.
For us to find happiness, we keep going because life keeps surprising us and giving us chances.
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