Are we smart enough to know how to keep ties that matter? When will we be able to see that we love each other and are not just using each other to get what we want?
Just picture a world where love was nothing more than a state of waking to other people!
It is easy to see why it is getting harder and harder to be in loving relationships in today's society. We have become creatures that are cut off from our feelings, emotions, and senses. This is because we have become sleepy, drugged-out beings who avoid closeness because they don't want to bring back something that has died inside them or face their inner emptiness.
What are we most afraid of about getting up? What about our kindness? The fact that we are poor, defenceless, and easily hurt as people. Because we have to be the best in life, we choose to give ourselves the impression that we are strong, effective, and warriors. If we aren't, then we become horrible people who don't deserve respect, so we have to hide and be miserable by ourselves in our corner. It's not fair to love or admire someone unless they are the most strong.
Furthermore, if precisely awakening to ourselves was the only way for each of us to change what needs to be changed, then we would be able to do so. This would mean going back to our first state, which is knowing that I am myself and that the people around me are beings to be loved and not exploited for the sake of doing good at their expense without caring about whether they are being used or exploited.
In order to experience the State of love, one would have to be strong enough to bring up old wounds so that they can be fully felt in the present moment. This would allow one to feel their own pain as well as the pain of others. We are once again connected to our sensations, emotions, and feelings as both average and exceptional people now that we can feel. It makes more sense to meet new people and love them when we finally wake up to ourselves.
All of a sudden, we feel like our sensitive, living bodies are vibrating, and we feel linked to both other people and the world around us.
You can learn to find your place by learning to value your skills, your ability to listen, your creativity, your relationships with others and yourself, how to communicate better, how to handle conflicts, how to stay grounded, how to position yourself so that you don't let others influence you, and how to be yourself.