Without self-esteem, we cannot be happy alone or with others. We must respect and love ourselves to balance with others.
The key to happiness is self-esteem
We value ourselves, which influences every aspect of our existence.
Self-esteem fluctuates. Bereavement, betrayal, or other events can stagger us.
Destabilised people don't always drown, even when everything falls apart.
Lack of decision-making, unresolved difficulties, and accumulated emotions can cause dissatisfaction and low self-esteem.
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Being joyful means feeling at peace, in harmony with everything and everyone.
However, beliefs, childhood issues, and life's knocks can destroy self-esteem.
We occasionally become victims, moan, and automatically seek assistance in our comfort zone when it flows.
We abruptly paused. We live half-lives, anxiety and uncertainty plague us, and time passes us by.
However, we lack courage. By believing this is the tragic reality and behaving against our well-being, we injure ourselves.
How many unhealthy relationships have you been unable to end? Has somebody embarrassed you without knowing how to respond?
Fear, doubts, embarrassment, and negative thoughts such as “Is this appropriate?”, “How will he react?”, “What will happen to me?”, and “I am not able to live without…” degrade our self-esteem and injure us.
Self-esteem comes first, followed by others.
Not considering oneself to be valid or respecting oneself profoundly affects self-esteem. Which often means putting others first.
Others deserve everything but you. Need to love others, don't deserve love... These thoughts make you expect others what you don't give yourself.
Not prioritising yourself causes suffering. Your self-esteem is low, and this attitude will keep it there.
You may consider yourself selfish because you prioritise your own well-being over others'.
How can you make others feel good if you're sick? Costing you happiness? You sacrificed yourself? How will you benefit?
No one will love, protect, or cherish you unless you do so yourself.
Above all because you can't give what's not inside. You can't give love you don't have, thus it's empty! It makes sense.
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Most relationship problems that get us stuck are self-esteem issues.
We must pay special attention to it because if we feel awful, we must mend something within ourselves.
We cannot ask others to do this or ignore the harm we cause by giving them what we do not offer ourselves.
True suicide.
Our discontent will increase. We will empty ourselves and become a black hole that absorbs everything negative.
Your happiness depends on self-esteem. You must first look at yourself and prioritise yourself. Make yourself important and heal your wounds.
Forgetting oneself makes “pouring” onto others pointless. You are the most important person in your life.