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in motivation •  11 months ago 

People do not allow themselves to experience the joy that comes from loving and caring for oneself. As if a part of them wants to punish them for something, they do not permit themselves to have pleasure in the moment that they are currently experiencing.

This pain has frequently arisen as a result of their needs as children not being addressed, which include love, affection, and acknowledgment, as well as a necessary framework to organise them. When it has been going on for a long time and never seems to go away, it is generally because of this.

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Alternatively, due of being mistreated, being rejected, experiencing actual or imagined lovelessness, or even being sexually abused.

All throughout their childhood, they are plagued by this pain, which hinders them from experiencing positive emotions and from developing into their true selves.Early Childhood Depression (EPD) is a notion that was established by Moussa Nabati, who is a psychoanalyst.

In his opinion, this type of depression is frequently accompanied with feelings of guilt, whether they are conscious or unconscious.

Both are formed in the brain of the child and are founded on the manner in which the child interprets the experiences that they have had. They then make their home covertly over the course of several months and years.

Then, in order to conceal themselves out of embarrassment or fear, they needlessly spend a tremendous quantity of vital energy. Or to make an effort to appear, to captivate, to shine... to experience a sense of being appreciated and recognised for your existence.

They engage in a wide variety of activities that are frequently addictive, such as drugs, sex, games, jobs, and things that are addictive, in order to avoid feeling the discomfort that they are experiencing.

Moreover, the way to get out of it is to first become conscious of it, and then to reconnect with your needs and your "essence," which ultimately results in a profound sense of well-being, security, and self-confidence.

And so, rather than living for the other, for other people, or in their place, we might become actors in our own destiny that we have created for ourselves. Thereafter, we come across his vivacity, his "peach," and his optimistic outlook. As a consequence, "illnesses" of the body, such as migraines, back or stomach pain, sleeplessness, impotence, or frigidity, frequently disappear.

In addition, we are finally able to become who we are, to become aware of who we are, and to take care of our bodies and our health. And to devote oneself to things that are artistic, spiritual, or intellectual; to become a father or mother; and to have one's heart and soul invested in love...


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