It hurts to be turned down. You've probably felt turned down before... It's hard to accept it!
We might betray ourselves to avoid being turned down and follow what other people say. We were raised to feel accepted and to get other people to accept us. We hate being turned down like the plague.
There is both social rejection and rejection within.
Rejection from the outside is unavoidable. How often have you turned someone down? Being real... Of course, this happened before. You can't do anything about this refusal.
You can, however, avoid it or get used to it. But rejection from within—what to do? This rejection is in your head.
What does being turned down do to us?
Being turned down makes you very emotional. You won't even be able to enjoy a joke because everything will hurt you.
Being turned down could also make you feel insecure. You can't find your place in the world if you don't accept it.
Lastly, failure may lead to not taking care of yourself. You'll forget about yourself and let go. You may also send this refuse to other people. A chain reaction.
Ways to deal with rejection
How can you get over the bad affects of rejection? Give your answer here!
Why would you want to feel rejected? Does this help you move forward? You're in neutral for no reason.
You reject yourself, not other people. Be sure of yourself, get over being turned down, and enjoy life.
Before you can love others, you have to love yourself. This is also true for rejection. If you accept yourself, other people will too.
Don't try to hide your mistakes and guilt. You're a person! Do your best and forgive yourself.
We can all praise other people. Why is it so hard to say nice things to yourself?
You must be blocking yourself because you think you don't deserve credit.
Think about your strengths, your prospects, and your inner wealth. Feel good about yourself.
Feel free to enjoy the best food, shows, and treats. Get yourself some cute clothes, a good book, or anything else you want. would be good.
Take care of yourself by giving yourself rewards. I promise you'll feel better and be happy.
Don't feel down if everyone gets what they want! They can help you believe in yourself and your ability to reach your goals.
Really believe in yourself and want to do it, don't feel bad about being turned down.
Rejection is affected by how you see yourself. Self-judgment should be a good thing. What did you do wrong? What should you do next? To move forward, ask yourself these questions.
Did these methods work for you? Do you now see how bad it is to be turned down? No one else can help you get over this feeling.
Don't think it will go away. Be smart and have faith in yourself. You know a lot. Your goals should not be stopped by anyone, not even yourself.
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