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A neutral emotional state is referred to as indifference. People have a tendency to characterise an indifferent individual as someone who "doesn't feel anything and doesn't suffer."

Nevertheless, it is an emotion that maintains the individual who exhibits it on the periphery of our society. And the wounds that are caused when we experience apathy from another person can be really terrible.

Attributing a sequence of descriptors to a person, which have little to do with the ideal of a virtuous person, is what it means to think of that person as being indifferent.

Indifference is seen to be related with insensitivity or coldness, both of which are characteristics that we consider to be un opposition to the social context in which we humans find ourselves and which would enable us to keep a social bond between us.

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The quality of being indifferent conveys the idea that "nothing matters to us," that we have no feelings regarding a particular circumstance or individual, and that "everything is the same to us."

In spite of the fact that we are certain that something is true, we must always ask ourselves whether it is feasible to separate our feelings in this manner and to this considerable degree.

In point of fact, when we demonstrate a lack of interest in a person or topic, what we are actually doing is either getting closer to or further away from the subject or circumstance in question.

It is not a good idea to choose indifference on a consistent basis because life is full of times and circumstances.

There are some things that can have a greater or lesser impact on us, yet we never cease feeling or experiencing something.

It is a resource that gives us the ability to select stimuli that either make us feel things strongly or causes us to feel them less strongly. Because of this, there is no such thing as complete apathy.

As the saying goes, "indifference is the hardest response, even when little is expected." This is widely believed to be true.

It has been demonstrated that displaying indifference towards another individual is one of the most hostile and hurtful attitudes that we are capable of adopting.

In order to demonstrate our lack of interest in another person, we must first disassociate ourselves from all of our feelings and make it abundantly evident to that individual that we do not feel any emotions.

However, apathy is not always a kind of negativity. In addition, it is a defence mechanism that we employ in order to protect ourselves from experiencing ongoing disappointments.

We can protect ourselves by "keeping ourselves on the margins" or by "expecting nothing from anyone." Both of these techniques are effective.

If we were forced to offer a positive or negative response to every stimulus that we were presented with, we would be fatigued. If we did not have the ability to return to neutrality, we would be unable to remain neutral.


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