I often wonder this as I see and interact with people in my personal and professional life.
I regularly hear loved ones or Listen to Your Body participants complain about the situation. This has gone on for a while. I wonder what I did to cause such hardships. My qualities are positive, in my perspective.
Since you seem to have not taken many risks or changed much, I humbly propose that you may have more potential for growth and change.
I appreciate that this approach may conflict with one's ideas that external forces cause difficulties. The ego-driven person may think their misery will end when circumstances or people change.
If this person considered their sentiments and role, they might realise that personal improvement comes from within. She may explore other attitudes or practises that may have different results.
Ego-driven people may ignore or reject their problems or misery. However, disowning suffering may impair physical health and relationships, even if people don't realise it. In most cases, loved ones admit their struggles. One theory says that focusing on the positive and staying optimistic may minimise suffering.
Perceived responsibility for another's well-being or emotional state can also cause distress. While we feel profoundly for our loved ones, we must set limits and prioritise our own well-being. This may cause discomfort.
Consider that one's perspective may cause them to believe they can change someone's life. This position allows for self-reflection and assessment of whether you are meeting your needs.
I'm always astonished by people's endurance and fortitude. I can imagine the energy spent debating and opposing things and enduring difficulties. I imagine the amazing potential if this person focused on producing pleasant and meaningful life experiences.
One can swim against or with the current. Personal desires may conflict with conventional beliefs, whereas emotions tend to agree with them. Which method is more efficient and streamlined? Which choice is better?
I suggest reflecting on a long-term challenge. Explore what your heart wants instead. Consider its emotional effects and personal growth potential first.
Please summarise your recent efforts to achieve your goals and improve your health. If the desired objective was not accomplished, the acts may have been meant to influence the other person. Recognising that change typically starts within is crucial.
It may be worth trying multiple methods to resolve a difficult situation. Personal preferences may inhibit growth. Disregarding one's inner voice and wishes for a happy and satisfied existence can limit personal progress and contentment if one believes in a higher power. I love love. Whether your ego or heart shapes your future is up to you.
When you follow its beliefs, your ego can guide you. Unfortunately, the ego may not recognise your true wants. Your heart appears to see this differently. There are several methods to use internal resources.
Consider a circumstance when a person struggles to receive criticism from their relationship and wants their partner to understand their perspective before making any recommendations. He wants to be heard, express himself, and communicate with his spouse.